Posted by tzp

I'm not going to lie...the lack of periods in your whole thing made me exhausted lol and I imagined it to be the pissed off rant of a middle-aged woman.

But you had good intentions with your message. there are things here she could learn from in your experience.

Yeah it was typed too early for me and i had plans to edit it later  

My child hood friend of 14 years ditched me in high school because he wanted to fit in with a new "cooler" group, how he did it made me even more mad.

Instead of just telling me 14 years of friendship was worthless to him he had to make a scene at school and make fun of me for things we had both done together as kids and even brought up really personal matters only he knew about it, really just made me never want to socialize again (god bless the lads I've met here who turned out to be good friends). Best part is few months later the group had ditched him too and he tried to crawl back to me, consider me an asshole but I said no.

You will have a lot of drama with friends at this point in your life but in the end you will find out who the real ones are and when you get older it gets much better.  

I ditched Grace yesterday in class, and sat with another group, which I believe made her think twice in how she sometimes ignored me. If she treats me badly I shall ditch her again!
Thanks for your stories everyone, I feel like I can relate to them and it's nice to know that I'm not the only one going through this, and that if most people can get through it I probably can too!  

When I first got to my high school I was a part of this larger group who most went to the same primary school so they all knew eachother, hung around with them for a few years and played Xbox with them but I was the guy who received most of the stick lol.

I changed groups, met all these amazing people and stuck with them for years who I'm gonna miss so much when we all go our seperate ways for uni/work. I still talk to some of those from my older group all those years ago and would love to see some of them again (I stayed on for Sixth Form whereas they left) but I'm so glad I changed groups all those years ago lol.  

Try and talk to them.