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Back from the dead?
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: Australia
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Thank you, both of you. I will try to distance myself from them and talk to some other people in my class more. I don't like the way the treat me, and now I really should do something about it. A lot of the times in the conversations we have they talk about boys that go to our brother school (who I don't know), so I'm left out a lot. And the other day the told me that wasabi was guacamole (I suspected it was wasabi though) and I took a big bit... The only question I have is do I ditch them? Or do I just not talk to them and decline their invitations? |
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08-23-2014
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08-23-2014
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✔️TURBO✔️VERIFIED✔️
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: Larunda Relay
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Wow. Those people are the spitting image of rich, American teenager girls. So probably should decline their invitations and ignore them. They'll probably forget about you sooner or later. You should do the same. |
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08-23-2014
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08-23-2014
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but dont listen to mine,since i cannot give u perfect advice.also,if htey beg,u should probably accept. |
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08-24-2014
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08-24-2014
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Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: WA USA
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I've never actually been a part of the high school drama thing, because, well, I am just too lazy for it, so I may not completely understand what you are saying, however, I do know a thing or two about losing and making friends. In high school, I wasn't the most popular person, but I was the guy that could go around and sit with any group and get along fine. I was what people call a "floater" I guess, just someone who doesn't stick to one group but floats around. One group is too boring. That being said, I have learned that it is better to be alone and happy, then with someone and uneasy, sad or uncomfortable. High school is a lot of peer pressure, and growing up. Be your own person, whoever doesn't like it doesn't matter, whoever does you should welcome into your life. It sounds like you are just going along with the flow here with these girls, and it can turn you into a bad person if you continue down that path. You already stated you are trash talking other people to make them happy. Be your own person. Get a hobby. Join an after school activity. Meet new people. Broaden your comfort zone. Honestly, when you get to the age I am at, and look back at grade school, you will wish you took more chances. Because honestly, you have nothing to lose at your age, and everything to gain. |
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08-24-2014
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08-25-2014
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08-25-2014
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Join Date: Jun 2013
Location: Near liverpool(uk)
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Ive been in the same situation as u with a despicable best friend except on the male end of the spectrum i was best friends with him as soon as he joined my primary school in the second year and i can tell you as soon as we hit high school he ditched me and never talked to me again until the next school year when those friends ditched him he imediately became one of my good friends again as if i was some kind of fall guy but then he finds another group same thing happens again abanndoned by now i was really p***** off and naturaly became friends with another kid who to some degree became my best friend but he had issues due to his mum being an alcoholic and treated me like s*** and used me as his personal jester but i did have a few good moments but he made me an outcast by making up storys about me for comical reasons anyway in the end guess who returns hoping to be best friends with me again and again he lures me in a bit until i find a different friend so i stayed as a best friend up until he makes some new friends which i could tell wherent very decent people but i stayed with him for a while anyway towards present day we strat arguing and i notice that hes really fake and copy everything from some kind of youtuber then me and him are both into art and we got picked to do this big clay picture so a couple of kids start throwing clay about so i throw a bit at his and he picks up a modeling knife i tell him not to throw it at me he threw it dead centre at my hand i took a dive for him and said it was me im no longer aloud to do the clay work and many weeks pass of no longer talking to each other i was never apologised to or shown an ounce of guilt so for me personaly id say best friends arent worth the hastle and you end up a lot more depressed letting them treat you terribly than being alone for a while im still good friends with my original best friend but i still do t feel at ease with him and he is still very oblivious towards me So if you really want to be happy i wouldnt waste your time being bestfriends with this girl if you dont enjoy her company i would however keep being friends with her so if you do feel like it not working you can sort something out i would seriously tell her how you feel and if your not comfortable with talking to her like that dont bother shes the one who has lost something dont make the mistakes i do and let people take advantage of you because you think you can help them with there problems as it really messed me up if im brutaly honest the acts shes commited towards you are forgivableso far bar ditching you i think shes just being playful.and all the things like saying your too tall for boys your age will change (for better or for worst ) but i would definately not make the same mistakes i did as it would be a shame to see a kind person such as yourself end up like me but at the end of the day none of the people here know the full story so dont be reliant on others but do be inspired anyway hope you come to the right decision |
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08-25-2014
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Hey
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: FL, USA
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lol u you too good for them.
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08-25-2014
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Zerith
Join Date: May 2013
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![]() But you had good intentions with your message. there are things here she could learn from in your experience. |
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