As a brief summary;
I live on a 22 house long street facing a park. Most people know eachother but about a week ago I found out there was a very attractive girl my age who I didn't know.
It's crazy because she lives 11 doors down from me.

We've been talking for a while but I really suck at meeting people for the first time.
When I meet people I'm generally with friends so it's not as awkward but I don't know how I'd go about meeting someone for the first time that I really don't want to mess up with.

We don't go to the same school so I haven't really had an oppurtunity to introduce myself or anything, along with that she's one of those girls at her school who's not an asshole but is very popular and I have no idea why she's interested in me whatsoever as I'm not that kind of guy. Because of this, I don't know how to ask her if she wants to hang out. Should I just meet up with her normally first and ask if she wants to get a coffee or go to the cinema or would that look like I'm asking her on a date which I want to do but I don't know if that's the right thing to do when we haven't even met yet aaaaaaaaaaaah

Someone confident help me  

Before going into this thread, I was assuming you're going to talk about a hooker. I'm assuming you're still a teen so go to the movies or take a stroll through a park. Being you is not going to push this chick away.  

Invite her for some chick fil e. that'll make her happy  

bruh you're hot  

If you've been talking ask her to go hang out, worst that can happen is she says no

if she says sure but shes busy at x time u need to be the one that suggests another time, rather than 'shell let u know' take control of the situation albie!!  

Posted by Weeno

Invite her for some chick fil e. that'll make her happy

Chick-fil-Eh. The lesser-known Canadian version of Chick-fil-A.  

Posted by Admiral

If you've been talking ask her to go hang out, worst that can happen is she says no

if she says sure but shes busy at x time u need to be the one that suggests another time, rather than 'shell let u know' take control of the situation albie!!

Listen to this guy, he is the spearhead of Chivalry.  

Just follow my advice and here's the acronym for it D.O.N.T it stands for Doooooooooooooon't also follow it for the YouTube comment section  

First off, don't get attached too early. If she says no or something happens thats fine, move on to someone else who will appreciate your time. The biggest mistake is caring to much for a girl too early.

Second, know this. (Paraphrased from Charisma on Command a great youtube channel) "No matter what happens I will be okay." Apply this to all social situations. In the long term nobody will remember what you say or doing and even if they do its likely they won't care. With that said, you have nothing to lose and in fact have actually learned and become better socially.

Third, before you talk to her have a date location set. Make sure she is aware this is a date so you do not get friend zoned early on. A personal move I like to make (if the date ends up going well) is having a second location to hang out after. (not recommended to be your house) For example, you two go to grab coffee together and it goes well. So you go to the park and walk around or something along those lines. This will make the date seem longer and makes it seem like you guys know each other better.

Understand you are a happy person without her, shine with confidence, and most importantly have fun. Good luck, let us know how it goes. ;)  

The more time with her the more attatched you will become. Also, make use of that time, unlike me when I have 10 minutes alone with a girl I say nothing. You could ask her when else to hang out, talk about almost anything, nothing too personal yet, and maybe even visit each other's houses if that's not too personal in your opinion. Respect her feelings, women can be sensitive and emotional at times, and understand that if she is going to hard things in life, you need to help her. Be that other half of her, and she will naturally come towards you. Don't forget to say hello to her too.

Posted by Alexmo

Just follow my advice and here's the acronym for it D.O.N.T it stands for Doooooooooooooon't also follow it for the YouTube comment section

You're annoying as ****.  

Lol, it's not rocket science everyone.
Treat her as any one of your friends. What do you do with your friends?
Don't treat her differently because she's popular.

Posted by Admiral

If you've been talking ask her to go hang out, worst that can happen is she says no

if she says sure but shes busy at x time u need to be the one that suggests another time, rather than 'shell let u know' take control of the situation albie!!

 

just *tips fedora*  

Posted by Platinum

Lol, it's not rocket science everyone.
Treat her as any one of your friends. What do you do with your friends?
Don't treat her differently because she's popular.

Treat her like a friend to a certain extent. If he wants to develop a relationship with the girl he needs to make sure his intentions of courting her are known other wise she will see him as a friend and won't consider him as a potential romantic interest. Its not rocket science but what you are suggesting puts a lot of guys in the friend zone.  

Posted by Shurikan

Treat her like a friend to a certain extent. If he wants to develop a relationship with the girl he needs to make sure his intentions of courting her are known other wise she will see him as a friend and won't consider him as a potential romantic interest. Its not rocket science but what you are suggesting puts a lot of guys in the friend zone.

I don't mean to rude but I'm 99% sure Platinum is a girl so I think she knows what she's talking about

Your advice is still pretty helpful though  

Posted by CM

I don't mean to rude but I'm 99% sure Platinum is a girl so I think she knows what she's talking about

Your advice is still pretty helpful though

You don't get advice on fishing from a fish. You speak to people who have experience in whatever you need advice on, other fishermen. I can't say this for certain but its likely Platinum isn't a male that is trying to entice the ladies. I am giving the advice that has succeed for me and many other men.

Platinum has a good point for how to behave if you are wanting to be strictly friends or you are already in a relationship with said person. Its a great bit of information but not practical for the desired outcome in this scenario.