Lonely. - 3

PoeticFolly · 04-06-2014

Posted by Blueh

How many extroverts do you think there really are on Graal rather than the self-proclaimed ones? My guess would be not a whole lot... I wouldn't even consider myself to be an extrovert, yet from don't believe I'm a complete introvert since I like to use qualities of both spectrums. (Extrovert via confidence, introvert via interests, etc. There are many more qualities I can embody from both.) But I highly doubt that most of us here are strongly outgoing ourselves. Plus there's a lot of benefits of being introverted that no one ever talks about. Society just likes to paint a negative image on things they don't understand. It's easy to get caught in the fallacy that introversion is always a harmful thing.

I'm an extrovert, but I doubt many people would believe that, haha.

MrSimons · 04-06-2014

Listen to Talon and Jester's advise.

GOAT · 04-06-2014

Posted by Rexx

I never said it was a bad thing. I am introverted myself.
Everyone is over analyzing his "I'm lonely" behavior when its just typical introversion.

Being shy and lacking confidence has nothing to do with being introvert or extravert. Im a introvert and I don?t have those issues(well not to that extreme). Introverts prefer to be alone with their thoughts because they prefer it that way not because they cant figure out a way to change it.

Posted by MrSimons

Listen to Talon and Jester's advise.

The thing with giving out advise is that they need to direct him in the proper direction to where he might get help.

Tyler · 04-07-2014

I'm a mess all around when it comes to loneliness.

doodleman171 · 04-08-2014

To be in solitude would be nice. I am an introvert too.

Sariss · 04-08-2014

Posted by doodleman171

To be in solitude would be nice. I am an introvert too.

^

introvert ftw

Rexx · 04-08-2014

Drop your left nut and **** the hottest bitch at your school.
Quit crying.

iRiley · 04-08-2014

^ fail

GOAT · 04-08-2014

^---double fail

Posted by Rexx

Drop your left nut and **** the hottest bitch at your school.
Quit crying.

what if he cant afford her?

??? · 04-08-2014

Posted by Era News

You need to man up.

I dont think you know the true definition of a man.

I'm not talking about the **** you find in Urban Dictionary or whatever it may be either.

Admiral · 04-08-2014

Join clubs and meet people who share the same interests as you, if you choke laugh it off or just ask them questions about themselves, you'll hardly find anyone who doesn't like talking about themselves especially girls.

It's not that you don't have the 'features' girls are looking for, it's how you express yourself and lack of confidence that girls can see. Seriously, just looking confident/what Blueh posted can make a hell of a difference, and if you're not happy with how you look then change it (hit the gym, change your hairstyle, change your clothing style etc.)

From what i've read about you in your threads you seem to be in a dark place and looking for a way to fit in. If I were you, I'd use this and turn it into positive energy for change, once you change and get a bit of confidence I promise you life will change for the better as well, you'll one day walk to school and people will think holy ****!

If not now, I promise you this as well, and anyone will tell you this that high school/secondary school is awful lol, so much drama and ugh just horrible, but once you get older and are hanging around with an older crowd/college this will change, you'll find people that like you for you and share the same interests.

GOAT · 04-08-2014

Posted by ???

I dont think you know the true definition of a man.

I'm not talking about the **** you find in Urban Dictionary or whatever it may be either.

man does not = man up

Blueh · 04-08-2014

Every morning I love to always wake up listening to a motivational track or parade around the house to The Imperial March (I'm serious lol), and say a brief prayer of thanks for having another day of good health and opportunities. When you start your day on a positive note, everything usually follows suit. You have more energy, more drive and more passion to the things you do. I think I mentioned this earlier in this thread, or in another thread that I go to bed at 12AM and wake up at 4AM everyday. Why? It's the lifestyle I choose, not forced upon me. I'm not studying last minute or rushing to complete my homework. I'm doing the things that I want to do to improve my mind, body, heart and soul. I believe that an object in motion, stays in motion and an object in rest, stays in rest. Whatever you're doing, as soon as you get started and keep on going the rest will flow naturally. Likewise, the longer you don't get started, the harder it will be to get started. I still experience this a lot in some areas of my life I'm trying to improve upon, but I'm hoping that you don't just read these posts and not learn from them and not apply them. Knowledge is not power. Knowledge is potential power. Using that knowledge to your maximum abilities in all aspects, is power.

doodleman171 · 04-09-2014

Posted by Reece

Join clubs and meet people who share the same interests as you, if you choke laugh it off or just ask them questions about themselves, you'll hardly find anyone who doesn't like talking about themselves especially girls.

I joined several clubs when I entered high school. Marching band helped me open up to people.

Viper · 04-09-2014

I may have a unique perspective as I am much older than most people here "28 to be exact". But don't try to be friends with everyone or win popularity contests, it will do more harm than good in the long run and maybe I am just cynical but the vast majority of people are just plain bad and you don't want to associate with them. Plus the quality of humans has exponentially dropped since the 90's and early 2000's. I recommend you search your own soul and character and search the soul and character of those around you and find a few good friends you can count on. Also the club idea isn't bad so long as the people are cool. I was in an Anime club in College, we actually walked around wearing cat ears and playing anime with boobs on classroom projectors and other cool stuff. I was also a member of the LaRouche Youth Movement walking around passing out posters calling **** Cheney a war criminal. Oh how I miss those zany fun times. Know thyself friend, then know everyone else, then you can win all your battles in life.

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MrSimons :) Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: no. Posts: 10,309	Listen to Talon and Jester's advise.

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Tyler Dark Desert Fox Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: United States, Ohio Posts: 5,720	I'm a mess all around when it comes to loneliness.

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doodleman171 Gani Artist Join Date: Nov 2012 Posts: 293	To be in solitude would be nice. I am an introvert too.

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Rexx User Registered Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 4,626	Drop your left nut and **** the hottest bitch at your school. Quit crying.

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iRiley Black Mamba Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 176	^ fail

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Admiral Registered User Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 2,912	Join clubs and meet people who share the same interests as you, if you choke laugh it off or just ask them questions about themselves, you'll hardly find anyone who doesn't like talking about themselves especially girls. It's not that you don't have the 'features' girls are looking for, it's how you express yourself and lack of confidence that girls can see. Seriously, just looking confident/what Blueh posted can make a hell of a difference, and if you're not happy with how you look then change it (hit the gym, change your hairstyle, change your clothing style etc.) From what i've read about you in your threads you seem to be in a dark place and looking for a way to fit in. If I were you, I'd use this and turn it into positive energy for change, once you change and get a bit of confidence I promise you life will change for the better as well, you'll one day walk to school and people will think holy ****! If not now, I promise you this as well, and anyone will tell you this that high school/secondary school is awful lol, so much drama and ugh just horrible, but once you get older and are hanging around with an older crowd/college this will change, you'll find people that like you for you and share the same interests.

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Blueh The Orator Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Yes Posts: 3,307	Every morning I love to always wake up listening to a motivational track or parade around the house to The Imperial March (I'm serious lol), and say a brief prayer of thanks for having another day of good health and opportunities. When you start your day on a positive note, everything usually follows suit. You have more energy, more drive and more passion to the things you do. I think I mentioned this earlier in this thread, or in another thread that I go to bed at 12AM and wake up at 4AM everyday. Why? It's the lifestyle I choose, not forced upon me. I'm not studying last minute or rushing to complete my homework. I'm doing the things that I want to do to improve my mind, body, heart and soul. I believe that an object in motion, stays in motion and an object in rest, stays in rest. Whatever you're doing, as soon as you get started and keep on going the rest will flow naturally. Likewise, the longer you don't get started, the harder it will be to get started. I still experience this a lot in some areas of my life I'm trying to improve upon, but I'm hoping that you don't just read these posts and not learn from them and not apply them. Knowledge is not power. Knowledge is potential power. Using that knowledge to your maximum abilities in all aspects, is power.

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Viper Banned Join Date: Dec 2013 Posts: 33	I may have a unique perspective as I am much older than most people here "28 to be exact". But don't try to be friends with everyone or win popularity contests, it will do more harm than good in the long run and maybe I am just cynical but the vast majority of people are just plain bad and you don't want to associate with them. Plus the quality of humans has exponentially dropped since the 90's and early 2000's. I recommend you search your own soul and character and search the soul and character of those around you and find a few good friends you can count on. Also the club idea isn't bad so long as the people are cool. I was in an Anime club in College, we actually walked around wearing cat ears and playing anime with boobs on classroom projectors and other cool stuff. I was also a member of the LaRouche Youth Movement walking around passing out posters calling **** Cheney a war criminal. Oh how I miss those zany fun times. Know thyself friend, then know everyone else, then you can win all your battles in life.