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12-11-2012
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Magic Maker
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: NYC
Posts: 398
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Sounds like everyone here is a little messed up. Only natural.
As for mental disorders... I have never been diagnosed with anything nor have I really felt the need to. Maybe that's a lie. Maybe there were points in my life I was so depressed I tried convincing myself there was something wrong with me instead of fixing the problems I set up for myself. Indirectly of course. I just had to figure out what was wrong in my life that got me upset, eliminate the negative influences, and bring in positive influences. No excuses for failure and no excuses for being bad about myself. Someone close to me died when right before I started high school. I was a mess. Grades were slipping for a year and no other time in my life did it seem clear that people care more about themselves than your life. That person died because they chose an unhealthy lifestyle. I accepted it. That person was still an awesome ball buster, but their diet and non-athletic style, and stress levels from work were taking its toll. The hurt I saw from friends and family members helped influence me to eat better and exercise so I wouldn't have people I love suffer from heart break if I died young. On top of that, I made some great friendships. People that kept me happy. People who made healthy decisions. When it comes to relationships... I'm thankful I'm in a great relationship but jesus christ did I go through some roller coasters! You just gotta keep dating people even though it sounds like a cliche, it's just foolish to be so hung up on one person you used to have. Go out. Have fun. Have a drink (if you're of age) and meet people. Don't always aim for a relationship. Aim to socialize and have fun in the moment. It's ok to sleep around and have your fun. It makes you stronger mentally and emotionally when you are ready to settle down. And money... another thing that has made me depressed in the past. It's never easy. Or maybe you're a genius and work with computers and it is. Or maybe you were born in a rich family. Well anyway if you're not you gotta force yourself to do better for yourself instead of sitting down on the computer wasting time. Even worse is convincing yourself you're ok because others around you (in a virtual community) seem happy and fun. They probably aren't in real life. Accept that you're only human and let go of arrogance or your denial of what's affecting your life negatively. Grow up and make something out of yourself. No hiding behind cos-plays. Be cool. This message isn't intended to one specific person it's just a reflection of my own upbringing. I think the best motivation I have seen lately is this, and excuse me for the language in it, moderators, it's still a really good message: http://inspir.me/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/juststfuanddoit.jpg (Unsupported image host) |
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12-12-2012
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Scientist
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: California, USA
Posts: 1,491
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12-12-2012
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The Orator
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Yes
Posts: 3,307
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Don't f**king curse so much!
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12-12-2012
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Times Change
Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: Cairo, Egypt
Posts: 1,872
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I have ADHD, and I can't concentrate for more then 5 minutes at a time. I have pills for it that help slightly but they make me have a headache. My doctor tells me that there are many people these days who beleive they have ADHD, and they hang on to it so they develop a mild ADHD, and that my case isn't a mild ADHD like the rest TV affects ADHD, too.
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12-12-2012
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Registered User
Join Date: Apr 2016
Location: Testbed
Posts: 604
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12-12-2012
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Should be fixed.
Join Date: Aug 2011
Posts: 6,359
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12-13-2012
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Join Date: Jul 2012
Location: Wundahland!
Posts: 1,921
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12-13-2012
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Classic
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: New York City
Posts: 908
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I feel strangely normal... No offense to anyone here.
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12-14-2012
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:)
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: no.
Posts: 10,309
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12-16-2012
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Bubba
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: United Kingdom
Posts: 520
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Aspergus syndrome.
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12-16-2012
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Graalian
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Belle Isle
Posts: 4,481
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12-16-2012
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Пиндос
Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: Alaska, United States
Posts: 11
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I have a tendency to be an asshole, but I'm not sure if its a disorder.
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12-16-2012
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User Registered
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Las Vegas
Posts: 4,626
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12-16-2012
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Immortal
Join Date: Sep 2012
Posts: 396
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Rage.
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12-18-2012
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Registered User
Join Date: Dec 2012
Posts: 71
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Just fyi Bipolar and Depressive disorders are mood disorders and not personality disorders. I'm sorry for everyone here who is depressed; people don't realize it's one of the worst things to have. A huge misconception with depressive disorders is that you're in a "slump" - and people who don't really care for you tell you to "get over it", but unfortunately that's not the case. |