Idk, I just don’t feel like its my place to take part in the social interactions between average players. I have my group but most of them are older players and I generally don’t go outside of it. As soon as anyone finds out you’re older than 20 people will find a way to make you seem creepy so I just stay out of it to avoid the situation. I know I wouldn’t want my kid (yes I’m that old, been playing this game on and off for 20 damn years) interacting with a 30 year old because I have come across some genuine creeps in this game.
I just PK, help other players learn to PK and maybe give out some advice to help people if I feel I can. I try to be a good influence in the game while having a few good fights. Win some, lose some, whatever it’s all fun and games. I’m sure we’ll go at it again.
EDIT: To bring it back to the OP, he is right. The game is full of very toxic people, always has been. The only thing that made it interesting was the quest and stories we used to have. I remember when when they destroyed Destiny town, it was a massive event with fires, explosions and NPC invasions. Had heart quest and long epic quest for different sword powers. They used to try experimental systems like the races we had for a bit. They sucked and one or two were just simply overpowered and made the rest pointless, but it was at least interesting and even the dumb races and cool mechanics. Now all we have are bland game events, new hats and assholes. Graal needs a bit more than that to succeed. Idk if its due to lack of imagination or a lack of technical skill but something needs to change or it will go the way of the PC client.