It's the Internet. Heck, some of the staff like Sarge are more perverted than the average player. Peoples social lives or whatever they do is there business. The block button is there for a reason.

And prince charming. Stop trying so hard. If you want to be a another pointless abusive gp then the sure fire way is to join a staff guild, half of the members of staff guilds get hired. Look at members of magic and zanza and cruxis that get hired.