Moving Out Abroad
 

Some of you might've experience this. But this is my first time, I wonder if I could get some tips on "How to Blend In" with the people. Not like copy and not be different and unique, How to be Friends with them that kind of thing.

I'm moving to America in 2 - 3 years, And I wanna be ready because We might go there earlier than expected, I wonder what is the down and ups of living in America. (Tennessee)

There are alot of americans in this forums, So I wanna ask here.

How to get out of bullies ?? Please I don't wanna go home schooled. My Mom said "If you got beaten up in school you will be homeschooled." I don't want that to happpeeennn I want friends.

If you don't want to be beaten up, either stand up for yourself, or just do the right thing, justice. If someone hits you, bullies, etc, its not tolerated. If its not in your school, the school is a scumbag school.

Make yourself relax and go away with the bullies. Go away like 15ft away from them.

Stand up for what you think is correct and for justice offen leads into you being bullied and beaten up most of the time. Please, stop giving such twisting suggestions. If someone kills me even though it is not tolerated and will be punished, will I come back and continue being alive? No.

Just try to make friends, stay out of trouble. If bullies try to approach you don't do dumb stuff i.e. cussing them, making fun out of them, etc. It's nothing like all those TV shows about bullies and so on, 'murican schools are normal ones aswell, so are their pupils.

Thanks !!

Also is it easy to get a job once in college ?

I don't know how it would work in America but when you move over get to know the community and your neighbours and stuff and in school I'm sure people will help you out since it's your first day.

Please don't be dumb and assume that doing some type of drug will help you fit in.

It's easy to get a job, always. Depends on what do you want to do and how much money do you want to earn.
You can always try working at your college though, lots of colleges offer jobs for their own students, try that first, I understand what you meant.

If you don't wanna be picked on, keep to yourself and at least blend in with the crowd to some degree.

Your mom probably doesn't realize your chances with getting in to a decent college with homeschooling is at an all time low.

Probably should just work things out with your school if you get bullied.

Tennessee is a pretty nice state for what I've heard, your English is also pretty damn good from what I can see.

I'm sure you'll be fine, and you'll like it here.

He's from Philippines. English is like the 1st language in school, mostly

He told us several times that English isn't his best language but how story it seems just fine to me.

Wow you're moving to where I live thats nice you'll find the folks here are friendly, but their are certain places you will not want to go notably out south. We're one of the nicest states in america and you will make friends here in no time when school starts again. I have a nephew around your age that plays graal and lives here so you can talk to him as well.

If you don't want to be bullied; be the bully.
Always did the trick for me.

Hopefully!! State might change do due to the time, and Also I think they already made the decision up since my step-dad knows that area abit since He has been there pretty much plenty of times as I can remember. And I wish we went to the same school blargh! that would be awesome.

Oh so thats why you're the bully here.

One of the downs would be going to Tennessee :P The ups is there is so much to do in this country and it's very very easy to get connected.

I'm not sure if you are good at making small talk, but if you're not then you should practice is. Making small talk is going to be the key for you to making new friends anywhere and everywhere.

Here is a good article: http://www.artofmanliness.com/2012/0...ke-small-talk/

Also, joining big churches, because they have small groups where they pretty much encourage people to interact. If you're not into church then there is a website called meetup.com it sounds like a dating website but its not. Its a site thats basically for people to meet up who show the same interests. You can even start your own group if you are interested in something that is not covered on the site. Then people who are interested in that will make contact with you.. Just a few ideas.

PS - Don't listen to the advice of being a bully. That's a horrible idea. Be friendly to everyone even if they are mean to you, eventually you will win them over and have even more friends.