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Kayla 01-14-2013 02:01 AM

Depression
 
I am third-teen years old and I need some help. I'm in a depressed state and I don't know how to get up from it. I have no friends,I'm shy,ugly and every time I ask for advice I get nothing. I'm serious about all this I know this isn't a website for complaining but since no one in real life would help me I figured I try here.

Nabu Lapse 01-14-2013 02:08 AM

Sorry to hear that, always feel free to message me

Remorse 01-14-2013 02:11 AM

well, pretty sure we've all been through this type of thing in the past/present so they're might be a few of us that'd supply reasonable answers.
Just gain a little confidence in yourself and stop beating yourself up about the things you supposedly lack.
Trying doing something productive and open to people some can be understanding.
I've suffered from depression from the 7th grade all the way to the end of 9th grade I know what it feels like. People may believe your hard to approach or something relevant to that since that's the problem I use to have before my life turned upside down

Feel free to message me if you need any help

Rockstar 01-14-2013 02:11 AM

As Nabu said, you may think its weird that your asking online people, but a lot of the time, our comminuty can help you.

Nabu Lapse 01-14-2013 02:14 AM

yah when people on here aren't bagging on one guy for no apparent reason we're pretty positive people :]

Rockstar 01-14-2013 02:15 AM

Hehe, except for some like 2 aha

The Doctor 01-14-2013 02:15 AM

Although I have maybe 5 best friends in real life, I'm very socially awkward. No one really asks me out on dates or wants to be friends with me because I'm a geek. That doesn't stop me from trying my best and improving my skills.

Jester Lapse 01-14-2013 02:17 AM

No one is ugly, take that back.

Depression goes around a lot now, I would be willing to bet over 85% of graalians were depressed at one point. The thing that helped me was getting out of my comfort zone and talking to people. Joining activities at school like sports, clubs etc. Great way to gain friends and connections.

Kayla 01-14-2013 02:19 AM

Quote:

Posted by Remorse (Post 278887)
well, pretty sure we've all been through this type of thing in the past/present so they're might be a few of us that'd supply reasonable answers.
Just gain a little confidence in yourself and stop beating yourself up about the things you supposedly lack.
Trying doing something productive and open to people some can be understanding.
I've suffered from depression from the 7th grade all the way to the end of 9th grade I know what it feels like. People may believe your hard to approach or something relevant to that since that's the problem I use to have before my life turned upside down

Feel free to message me if you need any help

I try to gain confidence and try not to be negative. But every time I try to get over it someone just points out one of my flaws and I'm repeating the cycle again.

Remorse 01-14-2013 02:22 AM

It's called ignorance. Just ignore those people who believe that it's pretty damn likely theyre just bagging on you because they're going through a similar faze

Nabu Lapse 01-14-2013 02:22 AM

People pointing out my flaws is my day-to-day life, I just learn to blow them off.

Kayla 01-14-2013 02:26 AM

Quote:

Posted by Jester Lapse (Post 278898)
No one is ugly, take that back.

Depression goes around a lot now, I would be willing to bet over 85% of graalians were depressed at one point. The thing that helped me was getting out of my comfort zone and talking to people. Joining activities at school like sports, clubs etc. Great way to gain friends and connections.

I try to find people to talk to but everyone my age are already in a group. I use to have a friend in till she moved. I try talk to my siblings but my brother a pothead and my sister thinks of me as the biggest bug in her life. I also tried out for basketball but they got a new coach and he kicked me off the team

Remorse 01-14-2013 02:26 AM

Quote:

Posted by Nabu Lapse (Post 278906)
People pointing out my flaws is my day-to-day life, I just learn to blow them off.

Exactly.
You just gotta be content with being yourself instead of being another persons pawn

Ignatius 01-14-2013 02:28 AM

You'd be surprised how much the Graal community can actually help. I was (and still kind of am) depressed and turned to Graal too for support. And it helped. Not only has the Graal community helped me with depression, but also everyday things like math. To sum it all up, Graal is ready for just about anything you have, so just ask and someone will try to help.

Jester Lapse 01-14-2013 02:47 AM

don't think that works for 13 year olds @ rexx. lmao


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