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CM 04-08-2017 06:09 PM

13 Reasons Why
 
Did anyone else watch it? I finished it in three days and it's insanely good. The ending has so many loose ends that I wonder if it'll have a second season, but tbh I think it's better off without one.

To anyone unfamiliar with it, it's a Netflix original about a girl who kills herself and leaves behind record tapes that describe all the reasons/people that caused her to kill herself (and as the title suggests, there are thirteen people).

Clown 04-08-2017 06:22 PM

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Posted by CM (Post 776261)
To anyone unfamiliar with it, it's a Netflix original about a girl who kills herself and leaves behind record tapes that describe all the reasons/people that caused her to kill herself (and as the title suggests, there are thirteen people).

I'm not a big comedy fan myself

PigParty 04-08-2017 06:46 PM

looked bad when i saw the trailer

fUnK 04-09-2017 08:01 PM

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Posted by PigParty (Post 776265)
looked bad when i saw the trailer

I agree. But after seeing this thread and the praise for it, I'll give it a watch. My brother is also binge watching it and told me to watch.

They need to start making the trailers better smh.

tricklebean 04-09-2017 08:27 PM

i hate the pop ups though. such a scary film

Sun* 04-10-2017 12:06 AM

I loved it, it felt real and had such a strong deep message about bullying.
By the way it ended, it probably ain't gonna get a second season but I didn't read the books so, altough i wouldn't mind a second one but I won't be surprised if it wasn't as good as the first one.

Spoiler
The scene with Hannah in her bath was realy emotional, to see this girl choosing to end her own life rather than still live in this world.

Mangsi 04-10-2017 11:04 AM

Sounds interesting. Tried watching the first episode. Not gonna even bother trying to watch with the heavy topics. I can't do those lmao.

Liz 04-12-2017 01:04 PM

The book is really good, only got through first episode so far for the show though.

Colin 04-13-2017 01:52 AM

I didn't like it, but I'll wait for people to finish watching before I explain why in detail.

Feel like some people are gunna try this at home though...

A lot of it is flawed in my opinion, and I don't really find it accurate in displaying these issues, also Hannah herself seems like a villain in the series even though she is the suicide victim.

Shmegg 04-14-2017 10:13 PM

Just watched episode one.
It felt like a bad Lifetime movie, and I didn't particularly care about any of the characters.

Don't think I'll continue watching.

MisterFace 04-14-2017 11:09 PM

That wasnt a troll, but whatever. Heres the ending for those who are weak
Spoiler
Alex shoots himself

Perseus 04-15-2017 12:34 AM

If I was gonna kill myself, I'd wanna go quick, not sit there and have to think about it for 10 minutes while I bleed out. Them ol' boys that go out in the woods have the right idea.

Asaiki 04-15-2017 01:18 AM

I'm Hannah. Hannah Baker.

BEH0LD iTz SAM 04-15-2017 06:49 AM

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Posted by Colin (Post 776886)
I didn't like it, but I'll wait for people to finish watching before I explain why in detail.

Feel like some people are gunna try this at home though...

A lot of it is flawed in my opinion, and I don't really find it accurate in displaying these issues, also Hannah herself seems like a villain in the series even though she is the suicide victim.

Well would they really want to make her look like a saint? The message they were trying to convey was how avoidable her suicide could have been and that suicide effects the people around you that you may not necessarily have known cared about you or you would have wanted to hurt. They aren't trying to glorify suicides which is why they actually showed her death and were so visceral in its depiction. You want to feel bad about her death but not to think it was everyone elses fault- I mean for one
Spoiler
had she been clear to Clay about her feelings/ not driven him away, or actually spoke out about being raped/ named the person when the Counsellor asked her then she could have overcome it.

Ultimately nobody is the blame for someone who suicides except for the person themselves. However you don't know how a person is really feeling/ who they are and your actions/ words can have consequence in driving them to think they have no other options/ actually think that by committing suicide they are actually helping those around them.

They show Hannah thinking that her committing suicide would help her parents as she felt she was a burden on them because of the financial troubles they were helping and that her death would ultimately help them. That's the mindset many people have when considering suicide which is why the show wanted to illustrate that, that action will have the opposite effect(showing the realistic reaction parents would have when Hannah's mum walked in on her death) even making others
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around them, as they showed with Alex, also being driven to suicide as a result of that. Even Clay was shown to consider jumping off a cliff when he was more or less free from any wrong doing.


I'm not a suicide professional but I can say that the film definitely does not glorify it, or try to make Hannah look like she was free of conviction. There was a beyond the 13 reasons director episode they aired where they talked about all those issues, specifically and how they made a conscious effect not to make suicide look like a release which is why they went with what they did (how Hannah died) and showed it in its full effect with her visibly suffering rather than a 1 and done kind of death.

MrSimons 04-15-2017 09:02 PM

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Posted by Colin (Post 776886)
IA lot of it is flawed in my opinion, and I don't really find it accurate in displaying these issues, also Hannah herself seems like a villain in the series even though she is the suicide victim.

This is part of why I don't like it. Bottom line I shouldn't watch a show about suicide and be thinking "Hannah is a ****ty person, and I hate her". I may also just not be the target audience for this show, but I really don't understand the hype for it.

CM 04-16-2017 12:35 AM

The show is not supppsed to be a pity party for Hannah and the viewers crying over her because she's such a likeable and amazing character. It's about how her death could have been prevented if something had changed.

Also, considering what these characters did to her, they deserve to hear the harsh truth. They killed her. She's not a saint but that's not what the show is trying to make her look like.

MrSimons 04-16-2017 06:29 PM

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Posted by CM (Post 777557)
The show is not supppsed to be a pity party for Hannah and the viewers crying over her because she's such a likeable and amazing character. It's about how her death could have been prevented if something had changed.

Also, considering what these characters did to her, they deserve to hear the harsh truth. They killed her. She's not a saint but that's not what the show is trying to make her look like.

I don't think she should be a saint, if she were some innocent girl who's never done anything wrong that'd just be bad writing. But my point is if you are going to write a show that addresses the issue of suicide, she should be in a position where you can feel sympathy for victims so that you, the viewer, want to help make a change.

Nanner 04-16-2017 07:07 PM

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Posted by MisterFace (Post 777316)
That wasnt a troll, but whatever. Heres the ending for those who are weak
Spoiler
Alex shoots himself

Nah what if
Spoiler
Justin or the weird camera guy
shot him. They both had guns at the end so you never know

Emera 04-16-2017 07:38 PM

It took me 2 attempts at watching it to really get into it. I gave up the first time half-way through episode 2, then re-watched it from the beginning all the way through. I really enjoyed it in the end :)

CM 04-16-2017 11:06 PM

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Posted by MrSimons (Post 777666)
I don't think she should be a saint, if she were some innocent girl who's never done anything wrong that'd just be bad writing. But my point is if you are going to write a show that addresses the issue of suicide, she should be in a position where you can feel sympathy for victims so that you, the viewer, want to help make a change.

A lot of the viewers do feel sympathy for her. Obviously it won't work for everyone since obviously this show is targeted towards a certain demographic, but I think 90% of the people who enjoyed the show did feel sympathy for her.

Jimbo 04-18-2017 06:18 AM

No great movies/serieses to watch for a month and then this series shows up

Really well made

Colin 04-19-2017 04:28 AM

I don't feel sympathy for her at all.

Spoiler
She enabled rape to happen to her 'friend', was the passenger in reckless driving that ended up taking the life of a very respectable kid who had a bright future ahead of him and didn't speak up, this is a very serious crime, the driver and passenger can be convicted of manslaughter. She even blamed a councilor for her suicide when he had no way of helping because she refused to tell him what happened or name the person who did it then acted like it was his fault.

For those unaware of how manslaughter works: the difference between murder and manslaughter is that murder requires an intent to kill, but manslaughter does not, a defendant does not have to intend to kill or injure anyone in order to be guilty of vehicular manslaughter.

To convict someone of vehicular manslaughter you must prove:
the driver operated a motor vehicle in a reckless or grossly negligent manner, and
the driver’s conduct caused a fatality.

CM 04-19-2017 02:47 PM

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Well what was she going to do during the rape? Her friend was unconscious and who knows what may have happened if she tried to stop it, she could've ended up getting raped herself (yes I know it happens eventually, but still). Not to mention she was drunk and scared. It's not like she wanted her friend to get raped, but she just felt helpless. It's easier to say all of the things we would do in that situation compared to what we would actually do if we were in that situation.

The car thing wasn't her fault, she wasn't driving but even so she tried to call the police before an accident did happen. The driver didn't want to admit to it and left her there which isn't Hannah's fault at all because she was left there literally for trying to help. Then she walks to a liquor store and tries to call the police.

Darkk 04-24-2017 11:04 AM

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Posted by Nanner (Post 777673)
Nah what if
Spoiler
Justin or the weird camera guy
shot him. They both had guns at the end so you never know

oh cheers just spoil the ending f idiot

Regius M. 04-24-2017 02:28 PM

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Posted by MisterFace (Post 777316)
That wasnt a troll, but whatever. Heres the ending for those who are weak
Spoiler
Alex shoots himself

Spoiler
nah, tyler shot him

Clown 04-24-2017 03:31 PM

Really good ending. One of the few series that ends unexplained and can be enterpreted by the viewer. I can't see a season 2 coming but that ending was great

Santa Claus 04-28-2017 05:09 PM

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Posted by Colin (Post 778097)
I don't feel sympathy for her at all.

Spoiler
She enabled rape to happen to her 'friend', was the passenger in reckless driving that ended up taking the life of a very respectable kid who had a bright future ahead of him and didn't speak up, this is a very serious crime, the driver and passenger can be convicted of manslaughter. She even blamed a councilor for her suicide when he had no way of helping because she refused to tell him what happened or name the person who did it then acted like it was his fault.

For those unaware of how manslaughter works: the difference between murder and manslaughter is that murder requires an intent to kill, but manslaughter does not, a defendant does not have to intend to kill or injure anyone in order to be guilty of vehicular manslaughter.

To convict someone of vehicular manslaughter you must prove:
the driver operated a motor vehicle in a reckless or grossly negligent manner, and
the driver’s conduct caused a fatality.

Spoiler

Isn't that the base of the show? No, one spoke out and this happen to everyone. No, one did anything and even to this day no speaks out about bullying and other actions that can be crimes. She wanted to call the cops in the car wreck but the girl drove off and she went to the store to call 911. But her and that other girl didnt speak out. Sadly I did like that guy who died. He was helping Clay be a regular teen. Sadly he did die and that death could of been avoided but it wasnt because of a careless teen who was scared to get in trouble with her parents.
But yeah the girl herself wasnt a saint but still no one should be treated like trash just like everyone else in the show. Camera kid was treated like was shock they didnt show him shooting up the school at the end. They all had big ass egos that they had to prove

Phantom 04-28-2017 11:07 PM

There are a lot of openings for a second season; however certain parts in the show are super cringe. Over all....it is a good freaking show and I was hooked from tape 1 ;)

G Fatal 04-29-2017 04:23 PM

Really good, @people saying they don't have sympathy for her etc etc.. I've heard that the book of this programme she actually went through alot worse and this programme more is showing the side of how suicide affects everyone else, that the problems don't just go away after her death, it still affects the others in certain ways and also shows very well in show points where if it was a little bit different if someone did something different or confronted people at that point of time then she still may have been here today.

P.S. I felt like i'm Clay of this world lmao!

Yog 04-30-2017 07:31 AM

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Posted by Perseus (Post 777356)
If I was gonna kill myself, I'd wanna go quick, not sit there and have to think about it for 10 minutes while I bleed out. Them ol' boys that go out in the woods have the right idea.

so long as it doesn't hurt I think it'd be fun

Darkk 05-01-2017 07:23 AM

Season 2: camera kid goes full school shooter lol

Ivy 05-01-2017 10:15 AM

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Posted by Darkk (Post 779973)
Season 2: camera kid goes full school shooter lol

The irony.

Emera 05-01-2017 01:19 PM

Does anybody else disagree with the fundamental concept of 13 Reasons, but also really enjoyed watching it? I'm conflicted.

HamStarr 05-01-2017 08:01 PM

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Posted by Emera (Post 780013)
Does anybody else disagree with the fundamental concept of 13 Reasons, but also really enjoyed watching it? I'm conflicted.

I felt that the book was good enough.
The show is dumb, IMO.

Saeed 05-01-2017 08:05 PM

How many episodes is it?

Emera 05-01-2017 08:28 PM

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Posted by Saeed (Post 780064)
How many episodes is it?

13, one for each reason/side of a tape.

MattKan 05-01-2017 10:55 PM

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Posted by Emera (Post 780013)
Does anybody else disagree with the fundamental concept of 13 Reasons, but also really enjoyed watching it? I'm conflicted.

Yes this. Entertaining yet highly problematic (probably)

Regius M. 05-06-2017 02:37 AM

https://68.media.tumblr.com/1d30e884...2rogo1_500.gif

me when watching 13RW

Arsenal 05-10-2017 12:26 AM

Good show, Alex didn't deserve to be on the tapes though. Like come on Hannah, he just made a list of girl with good asses lol. Also, sucks that Alex (one of the guys who did nothing much) ended up taking his own life. Also, I hate kourtney

fUnK 05-10-2017 12:35 AM

The show uses suicide as a plot device almost to a fault. I haven't read the book so I don't know how they tackle the subject there, but they did it horribly in the show. The only part where a message actually gets across in the show is where Clay finally talks to Skye. In my head I was yelling "FINALLY, A MESSAGE FOR THE AUDIENCE, BE NICE TO PEOPLE". They say they're showing suicide is bad, but that's not entirely true, the show could've done a better job of doing so.

But, on the other hand, the show isn't advocating for suicide like some people say AT ALL. I don't understand how a fictional show can make suicide more prevalent. It may not have got the message across that suicide is BAD, but it doesn't say you should do it either.

Overall, the show is cool, I guess. The fact that they're coming out with a second season (focusing on school shootings) is just dumb and shouldn't be a thing. The show had a hard time getting an actual message across, but it did bring awareness to suicide, rape, and bullying in school, so I appreciate that.

Red 05-12-2017 01:24 AM

this show is trash

CM 05-12-2017 03:40 AM

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Posted by Red (Post 781371)
this show is trash

Yeah this comment was a bit too late, better luck with season 2

Señor Albonio 05-17-2017 06:53 PM

13 reasons y 2d waifus are better

I'd watch that

Crono 05-18-2017 12:56 PM

a teen chick flick

PigParty 05-19-2017 12:30 PM

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Posted by Crono (Post 782156)
a teen chick flick

exactly what I thought since I saw the trailer, and really even the cover image of the show on Netflix

not wasting 13 hours of my life on it

Darkk 05-20-2017 11:25 AM

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Posted by Arsenal (Post 781217)
Good show, Alex didn't deserve to be on the tapes though. Like come on Hannah, he just made a list of girl with good asses lol. Also, sucks that Alex (one of the guys who did nothing much) ended up taking his own life. Also, I hate kourtney

Alex didn't take his own life. The camera perv kid shot him and staged the 'suicide.' Thats why he crossed off Alex's photo.... duh


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