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Illusions 07-31-2016 07:13 PM

Am I Okay?
 
(3rd Thread)But, my brain doesn't feel emotions like it used to. Nothing is amplified as much, it's weird. The question is, am I okay? I'm not joking.

5hift 07-31-2016 07:23 PM

Yeah we call this being a cynical asshole.

A lot of us here have it, its nothing special.

Bram- 07-31-2016 07:54 PM

Maybe you are autistic

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Illusions 07-31-2016 07:58 PM

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Posted by Bram- (Post 726345)
Maybe you are autistic

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Okay, that's not funny.

Bram- 07-31-2016 08:04 PM

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Posted by Illusions (Post 726346)
Okay, that's not funny.

Wasn't trying to be funny.

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Vicipower 07-31-2016 08:10 PM

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Posted by Illusions (Post 726346)
Okay, that's not funny.

Bram knows what hes talking about

kek no but idk dude mayb try n get a therapist dunno? if its bothering u that much

Mangsi 07-31-2016 08:35 PM

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Posted by Illusions (Post 726346)
Okay, that's not funny.

High functioning autism?

5hift 07-31-2016 08:37 PM

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Posted by Bram- (Post 726345)
Maybe you are autistic

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This kid got triggered when you said this.

His emotions definitely have issues.

PigParty 07-31-2016 09:55 PM

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Posted by 5hift (Post 726353)
This kid got triggered when you said this.

His emotions definitely have issues.

He wasn't triggered. I didn't think it was funny either.

Skyzer 08-01-2016 12:57 AM

Congratulations. You hit puberty.

Illusions 08-01-2016 01:04 AM

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Posted by 5hift (Post 726353)
This kid got triggered when you said this.

His emotions definitely have issues.

Since when was I triggered?

5hift 08-01-2016 01:15 AM

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Posted by Illusions (Post 726391)
Since when was I triggered?

The guy was trying to make a point by saying you could be autistic since people with autism don't interpret emotions the way most people do.

Some are either extremely emotional and react strongly to things or don't and are just awkward husks.

Obviously you and Piggy didn't know this and just took it personally like somebody who is triggered would.

Shmegg 08-01-2016 01:53 AM

It sounds like you want something to be wrong with you

5hift 08-01-2016 02:06 AM

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Posted by Shmegg (Post 726401)
It sounds like you want something to be wrong with you

Bit of a hypochondriac ain't he?

As long as you're not of harm to yourself or anyone else, you're fine.

Trust me.

Weeno 08-01-2016 02:06 AM

Not anymore with these comments

Illusions 08-01-2016 02:12 AM

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Posted by 5hift (Post 726393)
The guy was trying to make a point by saying you could be autistic since people with autism don't interpret emotions the way most people do.

Some are either extremely emotional and react strongly to things or don't and are just awkward husks.

Obviously you and Piggy didn't know this and just took it personally like somebody who is triggered would.

I honestly hope I'm not..

5hift 08-01-2016 02:14 AM

Autism isn't a disease, you can't get it out of the blue.

If you had autism, everyone close to you would've known by now.

Seriously, if you're feeling weird then just go see a doctor or a therapist.

None of us here are doctors or psychologists even though some of us know what a hypochondriac is.

CM 08-01-2016 05:36 AM

tbh I feel like you were just sitting in your room one day and then thought "do I feel emotions like I used to?" and then you thought about it for 15 minutes and then convinced yourself that you don't

that's what used to happen to me anyway

it's called hypochondria

Shmegg 08-01-2016 08:12 AM

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Posted by CM (Post 726453)
tbh I feel like you were just sitting in your room one day and then thought "do I feel emotions like I used to?" and then you thought about it for 15 minutes and then convinced yourself that you don't

that's what used to happen to me anyway

it's called hypochondria

exposedt

Eugeen 08-01-2016 08:36 AM

Like 5hift said, see a doctor or therapist.
Nobody here is gonna be able to figure out your feelings and thoughts.

PigParty 08-01-2016 03:26 PM

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Posted by 5hift (Post 726393)
The guy was trying to make a point by saying you could be autistic since people with autism don't interpret emotions the way most people do.

Some are either extremely emotional and react strongly to things or don't and are just awkward husks.

Obviously you and Piggy didn't know this and just took it personally like somebody who is triggered would.

I didn't take it personally. I just don't find it funny, since humor was the obvious intention of the post. Seems as if you're actually triggered, so you're trying to start something.

Asaiki 08-01-2016 03:37 PM

visit a therapist or a doctor we're not doctors or therapist. hiss.

Skill 08-01-2016 04:47 PM

It's life. I also miss the excitement filled days of being a kid.

Perhaps you might grow up to be nihilistic and boring like me.

Aguzo 08-01-2016 05:11 PM

When people become depressed they start to not enjoy life as much as they used to. Not saying that you are going through a state of depression, but it is a possibility.

Just make sure that you aren't taking any sort of medication/drugs. The last thing that you want is to take meds that you don't need, especially not for depression, because most medications for that will just make you feel worse... Start feeling more confident, smile more, don't stress out anymore about money or any other problem. Live life happily, cause no matter what you do it all ends at one point. Make the most of the time that you have now.

Maybe you have matured, and don't find old activities as fun as they used to be. That's okay, it's just a new chapter in your life. Don't worry, the sun will shine upon you once again. Give it time, or just get out there and find that happiness that you are longing for. Make a list of things you've wanted to do, and work towards those goals. You can do it.

Dread 08-01-2016 05:46 PM

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Posted by Aguzo (Post 726495)
Start feeling more confident, smile more, don't stress out anymore about money or any other problem. Live life happily, cause no matter what you do it all ends at one point. Make the most of the time that you have now.


That's not exactly how depression works. If you ARE depressed and you want to learn how to fix your problems you generally want to start with the question "why might I be depressed in the first place?" most people generally struggle with this question and get quite frustrated by it but some very common reasons can be things such as not being interested in the people you hang around with such as "friends" and also not being interested in school and therefore not participating in school making you naturally always doing your homework last minute etc. Obviously there are countless reasons to why one could be depressed but a most of the time if not all of the time it has to do with what you surround yourself with and what type of life style you are letting yourself life ~ not always the easiest thing to spot

It may feel comforting to think perhaps there is something wrong with you so people can feel sentimental for you or whatever, but realistically depression isn't something that goes away by people feeling bad for you or you getting some sort of special treatment. I suggest you try to really start pushing yourself to be open with yourself and those around you and you will end up attracting some people of a similar mindset

Rolense 08-01-2016 06:05 PM

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Posted by Skyzer (Post 726387)
Congratulations. You hit puberty.

Was thinking the same thing

Aguzo 08-01-2016 06:21 PM

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Posted by Dread (Post 726499)
That's not exactly how depression works.

Have you ever been depressed? Not sad, but actually depressed? Have you overcome it?

There is a huge difference between being sad, and being depressed. Especially when it lasts for a very long time.

Op could be becoming more mature, or going through a state of depression. Maybe he just needs to take a break from graal.

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Posted by Illusions (Post 726338)
(3rd Thread)But, my brain doesn't feel emotions like it used to. Nothing is amplified as much, it's weird. The question is, am I okay? I'm not joking.

Judging from this though, it's possible that he/she has gone through a series of events and has noticed that they don't feel as emotional as a "normal" person would. Op has probably gone through anxiety/depression, and just feels numb now. Could just be something else though. Won't know, until they give more info/see a doctor.

CM 08-01-2016 08:00 PM

I think OP might be a hypochondriac based off of all these health based threads he posts, but if he actually is depressed, then it depends on the type of depression it is. Clinical depression is depression without a cause, so if he has that then you can't just tell him to "start pushing yourself" and to "be open with yourself and those around you", it might help but clinical depression needs to be treated with therapy/medication.

again though, I don't think OP has depression, I'm pretty sure he's still young so it could be hormones/some type of change

Ark 08-01-2016 08:53 PM

You should talk to a psychiatrist

Illusions 08-02-2016 02:41 PM

I appreciate these answers. I think it's because I'm not in school where I remember thinking to myself how fun it was. I am on vacation, which makes me feel better. Nothing bad has happened to me. Puberty is also a possibility.
(I know I'm not autistic)
@Aguzo, I don't play Graal a lot.
I perhaps can be depressed as I don't see people I wish to see anymore. If I am depressed, I probably will have minor depression.

These health questions and the idea of being a hypochondriac do intrigue me. I do often gaze outside and think to myself am I ok or not. Sometimes when I think about my health, it does get to me. I think the main problem is that I don't see certain people anymore.

Milo 08-02-2016 03:21 PM

If it's depression, speaking to someone close to you can help at times. IMO therapists don't work, they just repeat and ask you stuff you already know or are pretty obvious. It gets pretty frustrating.

Mangsi 08-02-2016 03:43 PM

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Posted by Milo (Post 726615)
If it's depression, speaking to someone close to you can help at times. IMO therapists don't work, they just repeat and ask you stuff you already know or are pretty obvious. It gets pretty frustrating.

Everyone's experience with therapist's will be different. I for one have been in therapy for years now and it's worked wonders. If he wants to go to one, let him go to one. From personal experience, talking to family is ffing useless.

Bryan* 08-02-2016 09:24 PM

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Posted by Milo (Post 726615)
If it's depression, speaking to someone close to you can help at times. IMO therapists don't work, they just repeat and ask you stuff you already know or are pretty obvious. It gets pretty frustrating.

Why people assume that the support of a good friend can substitute for therapy? Social support is important for everyone, but therapy is very different opposed to a friend or a family member. With therapists you have confidentiality and a professional who can diagnose and treat cognitive, emotional, behavioral, and relational issues.

Therapists are objective. Friends aren't.

5hift 08-02-2016 09:31 PM

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Posted by Milo (Post 726615)
If it's depression, speaking to someone close to you can help at times. IMO therapists don't work, they just repeat and ask you stuff you already know or are pretty obvious. It gets pretty frustrating.

Sounds like you got the cheapest, most unqualified therapist ever.

Skyzer 08-03-2016 08:23 PM

Ya'll've'd ****ty therapists.

Milo 08-04-2016 06:36 AM

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Posted by 5hift (Post 726654)
Sounds like you got the cheapest, most unqualified therapist ever.

pretty much yeah, didn't pay a cent at all. She didn't understand the meaning of confidentiality at all

Crono 08-04-2016 09:26 AM

no u r a very deep person and dead inside

u embrace darknes

Shmegg 08-04-2016 10:02 PM

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Posted by Crono (Post 726881)
no u r a very deep person and dead inside

u embrace darknes

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Neil 08-05-2016 07:57 PM

its ogre op

Illusions 08-06-2016 02:35 PM

Maybe when I go to school I won't be like this anymore.


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