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Illusions 06-21-2016 01:31 AM

My Life Seems Boring
 
So lately, for the past few days, everything I do my in life, I sometimes question: "Am I having fun"? It's a weird feeling, I think it has to do with my antisocial behaviour. It's nowhere near as boring as to the point of killing myself, but it is just a question that pops up in my head, that I sort of adapt to, not knowing whether to consider an activity as tedious or amusement. I'm, all day at my computer, which may contribute a factor towards this psychological issue. Anyone have advice to get this feeling out of me, because I've done this before, but have only felt isolated, not bored.

Alex Damian 06-21-2016 01:44 AM

I understand what you mean;I'd watch youtube videos of everyone adventuring the world having while I'm adventuring Graal servers lol. But now adays I actually go out and do a lot with friends. Try phoning a few friends up and see if they wanna hang out. I have a neighborhood pool so I usually go to that every other day and I end up seeing lots of people I know there :)

I also make plans on certain days like go bowling with a group of people or go to moes and target and goof around, try doing things like that.

Ivy 06-21-2016 01:59 AM

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Posted by Illusions (Post 716290)
everything I do my in life, I sometimes question: "Am I having fun"? It's a weird feeling, It's nowhere near as boring as to the point of killing myself, but it is just a question that pops up in my head, that I sort of adapt to, not knowing whether to consider an activity as tedious or amusement.

this is my every day struggle

Liz 06-21-2016 02:11 AM

so relatable lol

5hift 06-21-2016 02:28 AM

Move to Africa and you life suddenly becomes a struggle to survive.

Very exciting stuff.

DJ Meow 06-21-2016 02:51 AM

#perks of being a teen

Skyzer 06-21-2016 03:35 AM

Are you people even adults yet?

Nanner 06-21-2016 04:16 AM

Find some friends irl

Ash Ketchum 06-21-2016 04:29 AM

On a computer all day? Sounds like heaven to me

Senpai Enigma 06-21-2016 05:31 AM

once you reach adulthood and start working, you wont be bored, you will be stressed and ask "is this job even worth it, do i like it?" there will always be a question

Perseus 06-21-2016 05:32 AM

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Posted by Senpai Enigma (Post 716358)
once you reach adulthood and start working, you wont be bored, you will be stressed and ask "is this job even worth it, do i like it?" there will always be a question

Stfu, you steal people's phones.

The Doctor 06-21-2016 05:52 AM

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Posted by Senpai Enigma (Post 716358)
once you reach adulthood and start working, you wont be bored, you will be stressed and ask "is this job even worth it, do i like it?" there will always be a question

As a twelve-year-old, I'm not sure you have any experience what it's like to be an adult.

MrSimons 06-21-2016 06:20 AM

I know someone who was really depressed so he moved to Alaska for a year to work at Costco and sleep with his cousin. He's doing better now so you could try that I guess.

Ash Ketchum 06-21-2016 06:22 AM

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Posted by MrSimons (Post 716383)
I know someone who was really depressed so he moved to Alaska for a year to work at Costco and sleep with his cousin. He's doing better now so you could try that I guess.

So the answer is.. sleeping with your cousin?

Admiral 06-21-2016 09:07 AM

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Posted by Ash Ketchum (Post 716385)
So the answer is.. sleeping with your cousin?

No... sleeping with his cousin

Illusions 06-21-2016 03:34 PM

Well, I almost never see my parents. That could also be a factor.

Bryan* 06-21-2016 04:02 PM

You're caved in too much. Go outside, explore, do things with friends and/or family. Could search up attractions in your city/state. Join a club or a team if you play any sports.

Bram- 06-21-2016 04:05 PM

So depressing

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Skyzer 06-21-2016 04:18 PM

Get a hobby. When you become an adult you can take control of your life and maybe stop being pathetic.

Mangsi 06-21-2016 04:26 PM

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Posted by Skyzer (Post 716485)
Get a hobby. When you become an adult you can take control of your life and maybe stop being pathetic.

Maybe stop being a ****? He's clearly got something going on with him, and he doesn't need your negative energy.

I'd suggest finding a hobby, like running, art, weight lifting, crafts, things like that. Find something that YOU might enjoy, and stick with it. Also, try and see your parents more often. I don't know your situation, but if at all possible, try and ask them to make some time for you.

Skyzer 06-21-2016 04:37 PM

He's being an emotional teenager. Everyone has to deal with it.

Difficult to explain to other teenagers. :/

Distorted_P2P 06-21-2016 04:39 PM

realized just sitting in a dark room doing nothing all day isn't 'normal' so I started hanging out with my homie basically every day now

CM 06-21-2016 05:14 PM

you should become a social rights activist like me

Yog 06-21-2016 05:48 PM

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Posted by Skyzer (Post 716331)
Are you people aren't even adults yet?

Are you aren't even grammar yet?

Illusions 06-21-2016 05:53 PM

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Posted by Bryan* (Post 716481)
You're caved in too much. Go outside, explore, do things with friends and/or family. Could search up attractions in your city/state. Join a club or a team if you play any sports.

Well I guess that's what the Summer does to me.

Skyzer 06-21-2016 06:51 PM

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Posted by Yog (Post 716499)
Are you aren't even grammar yet?

I forgot to remove 'aren't' after changing the sentence to a question. Fixed now.

Ivy 06-21-2016 07:03 PM

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Posted by Illusions (Post 716501)
Well I guess that's what the Summer does to me.

I wish we could have winter and fall all year, or maybe just fall and spring

Bryan* 06-21-2016 07:22 PM

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Posted by Illusions (Post 716501)
Well I guess that's what the Summer does to me.


Could make it an everyday lifestyle if you choose to do it.

Skyzer 06-21-2016 07:25 PM


Mangsi 06-21-2016 08:01 PM

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Posted by Skyzer (Post 716532)

LANA DEL REY AHHHHH

Sardon 06-21-2016 08:04 PM

relateable

I think about thqt but then I block the world out by surounding myself with medias such as video games ,movies,music ect.


life is boring rn

DanteGraal 06-21-2016 08:47 PM

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Posted by Illusions (Post 716290)
So lately, for the past few days, everything I do my in life, I sometimes question: "Am I having fun"? It's a weird feeling, I think it has to do with my antisocial behaviour. It's nowhere near as boring as to the point of killing myself, but it is just a question that pops up in my head, that I sort of adapt to, not knowing whether to consider an activity as tedious or amusement. I'm, all day at my computer, which may contribute a factor towards this psychological issue. Anyone have advice to get this feeling out of me, because I've done this before, but have only felt isolated, not bored.

Things are so boring to you because you spend your entire time in front of a computer. The more time you spend on it, the more your life will get boring because new things will rarely manage to stimulate your brain the way your bad habit does so your life becomes dull, unsatisfying and boring.



This video explains more in detail.

Illusions 06-22-2016 11:45 AM

Thanks for all the help, I just went outside and I have no words for how much better I felt lol.


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