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DJ Meow 01-05-2016 10:37 PM

Your first Relationship
 
Who was it with? Was it true love or did you feel you just needed a girlfriend/boyfriend to fit in. How old were you, how old was she? Did you ever let someone steal your first kiss before your relationship? Feel free to add in anything other than the questions i asked above.

Mangsi 01-05-2016 10:41 PM

I was five years old. We kissed in the bathtub while playing hide and seek. He proposed. We got "married". He cheated on me 2 years later with a girl from Catholic school.

Not even joking we dated for 2 years.

Albie 01-05-2016 10:54 PM

> 13 years old
> Find out the most popular and pretty girl in our year/grade had the hots for me.
> Being the nerd I was back then, I dropped all morals and decided to date her because I was that shallow.
> 2 weeks into the relationship my real crush tells me she has a crush on me.
> Dump popular pretty current girlfriend
> Get told by crush I jump from girl to girl too much
> 13 year old Albie is single again
> 13 year old Albie cries and eats ice cream
> 15 year old Albie doesn't know why he's writing this

Vic 01-05-2016 10:56 PM

Sophomore year, she dumped me bc we didnt hang out enough. Every weekend wasn't good enough, I guess.

The Doctor 01-05-2016 11:50 PM

Freshman year of HS, she dumped me after a month because I didn't make enough physical contact.
Sophomore year of HS, I broke up with someone else after two months because of excessive physical contact.

tl;dr I like to take things slow

GOAT 01-06-2016 12:27 AM

I will never forget the first day I laid eyes on my right hand. Love at first sight awww

Isaac 01-06-2016 12:30 AM

First relationship was a long-distance relationship (met over Graal, laugh it up) for a little over a year and two months, ended up being dumped for being possessive and clingy, constantly worrying and riddled with depression - I regret a lot of that relationship, but I've also grown and learned a lot from it.

Currently in my first in-person relationship, and hopefully my last. Both of us are head-over-heels in love with each other, find each other interesting, enjoy each others' company, and so on. Worried that I'll have the same issues with myself being clingy, but hopefully I'll be able to make this last a long, long while, if not forever.

Never been happier.

MrSimons 01-06-2016 12:32 AM

First relationship was in seventh grade, we never went on a date.

Jent 01-06-2016 02:08 AM

First relationship was in 3rd grade. We never broke up she just up and left the country. Never heard from her again

Vicipower 01-06-2016 02:24 AM

I dunno if it really was a relationship but my first kiss was when I was 8 or 9 and me and my best (female) friend. Well we spent every single day together since we both went to a strict catholic Boarding School, and then it just Kind of happened at some Point, to be specific.. at night before we were going to sleep and we were like building up a "pillow fortress with a lot of blankets" and we were super childish haha. We often cuddled together and we shared a room together which was sooo great.

Never really told anyone about it now that I think about it... woooow. Well she gave me a necklace, which I later on lost somehow, and after I got into another School we lost contact. She was really pretty, helpful and always helped me when someone was bullying me (I was super tiny and sassy and got into a lot of fights).

Distorted_P2P 01-06-2016 02:47 AM

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Posted by Mangsi (Post 656721)
I was five years old. We kissed in the bathtub while playing hide and seek. He proposed. We got "married". He cheated on me 2 years later with a girl from Catholic school.

Not even joking we dated for 2 years.

Someone cheated on you when they were seven years old?

Mangsi 01-06-2016 02:50 AM

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Posted by Distorted_P2P (Post 656840)
Someone cheated on you when they were seven years old?

He found another lady, yes ;d

Distorted_P2P 01-06-2016 02:51 AM

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Posted by The Doctor (Post 656757)
I didn't make enough physical contact.

Same thing happened to me when I was a freshman, I dated this one chick I had been acquainted with since the seventh grade, we started dating and after about three days she told me I needed to be more, "touchy" as she put it, we had already made out a LOT.

Got laid shortly after.





Spoiler
Sophmore year found out she was into chicks, definitely hurt a bit.

DJ Meow 01-06-2016 03:58 AM

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Posted by GOAT (Post 656778)
I will never forget the first day I laid eyes on my right hand. Love at first sight awww

Oh how romantic. 😍😘😍😘😍 You will never leave your hands side until the day you die (literally).

Vic 01-06-2016 04:07 AM

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Posted by DJ Meow (Post 656858)
Oh how romantic. 😍😘😍😘😍 You will never leave your hands side until the day you die (literally).

http://imgur.com/05oN5oF.jpg

Eugeen 01-06-2016 04:11 AM

I'll try to keep it simple and short.

>Gone to new school cus bullied.
>Had big crush on a girl at new school.
>Had pic of girl saved cus I was shy.
>She found out and texted me.
>We ended up dating.
>After month she texting other guy while on couch @ my house.
>Dumped her.
>Next day she dating guy she texted.

Result:
Never had a crush like that again (as in liking someone that much) and it was another addon to why I have trust issues.
Atleast I learnt from it, never date a hoe and expect true love from her

DJ Meow 01-06-2016 04:16 AM

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Posted by Vic (Post 656864)

:0

You fiend!

Isaac 01-06-2016 04:22 AM

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Posted by iBubble (Post 656867)
>After month she texting other guy while on couch @ my house.
>Dumped her.

Uh, just normally chatting?

TWIZ 01-06-2016 04:31 AM

I guess I had a relationship when I was about 4 years old... we kissed regularly (huehuehue), and I'm not quite sure how it ended, but it lasted about 1-2 years. In sixth grade I had a crush, the biggest crush I've ever had. Sometimes we talked, and I remember my best friend and I both had a crush on the same girl. We did the ol' "Who do you like, bro?" "No one, man." "Seriously, who do you like?" "Alright, alright. I like... Jane Doe" "No way, bro! Me too!" And we settled it like men. Just kidding, he told me he wasn't that into her, and I also later found out the girl liked me back, so I asked her out, and she said yes, and a couple days later her *****y friend came up to me on a field trip and told me she didn't want to date me, and I was confused and I guess that was the end of it. The next year I switched schools, and the depression kicked in, and I was desperate so I started studying philosophy and psychology, and creating my own theories based on what I've learned, as well as mathematical theories along the way. Now I'm happy.

Eugeen 01-06-2016 05:05 AM

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Posted by Isaac (Post 656876)
Uh, just normally chatting?

Sending hearts to another guy and hiding her phone as I sat besides her suddenly means it's not normal chatting. Was keeping it simple and short though xD

Advent 01-06-2016 05:55 AM

so i got married. THEN THE GIRL I MARRIED PAID 1000 GRALATS TO DUMP ME! liek dis if u cri evrytiem

Latte 01-06-2016 07:15 AM

Uhhh first relationship was a blind date. He asked if he wanted to be in a relationship before our date, and me not knowing anything about relationships, was like "ok yeah" xD

I show up to the date, and he blacksmithed a ring with the numerical date inscribed on it. I mean its technically romantic, but it was a little too much for me... he was a nice person, but definitely not the right match, and made me realize how serious the whole dating thing is.

Red 01-06-2016 09:06 AM

I'll try to keep this short
Met her over graal (funny I know) met in real life ALL THE TIME lasted 2 years until a week or so ago when she left me for being to "clingy" when she was the exact same lol.

MBK 01-06-2016 12:40 PM

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Posted by OG (Post 656968)
I'll try to keep this short
Met her over graal (funny I know) met in real life ALL THE TIME lasted 2 years until a week or so ago when she left me for being to "clingy" when she was the exact same lol.

Clingy Feint.

PumaD 01-06-2016 01:06 PM

First time I went on Graalians and saw Goats spicy ****-postings/replies... selfexplaining pretty much what happened. :'(

Neil 01-06-2016 01:58 PM

FACE

Nanner 01-06-2016 04:39 PM

In 4th grade with some pretty chick and it lasted til end of 5th grade going into 6th grade summer. I just stopped texting her (rudely enough) and just wanted to do my own thing and not have to be worried with having a girlfriend. It was a fun relationship tho not gunna lie.

Mangsi 01-06-2016 05:36 PM

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Posted by Latte (Post 656953)
Uhhh first relationship was a blind date. He asked if he wanted to be in a relationship before our date, and me not knowing anything about relationships, was like "ok yeah" xD

I show up to the date, and he blacksmithed a ring with the numerical date inscribed on it. I mean its technically romantic, but it was a little too much for me... he was a nice person, but definitely not the right match, and made me realize how serious the whole dating thing is.

That sounds horrifying

Alexmo 01-06-2016 10:28 PM

Never had one probably never will because I'm kinda a nerd/scrub

Howl 01-07-2016 01:50 AM

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Posted by Latte (Post 656953)
I show up to the date, and he blacksmithed a ring with the numerical date inscribed on it.

That's a bit creepy, not gonna lie...

Cutieno 01-07-2016 03:14 AM

When I was in kindergarten me and this guy were best friends my mum has always been like "he was your first boyfriend" xD I don't even remember him, lol. xD I feel so bad! But oh well

Sir 01-07-2016 07:37 AM

Some interesting ones in here!

My first relationship that I actually took serious was in 8th grade. We dated for a few months and she started telling me how many kids we were going to have, what their names were going to be, their genders, our house's color scheme, the style & layout of the house... Tons of things like that and I decided to cut the cord after.

Conquest 01-10-2016 04:03 AM

I don't believe in dating; and I don't believe in breaking up. I definitely don't believe in sex before marriage. I dont believe in waning interests when serious. I don't believe in calling someone "clingy" as the common bull**** excuse these days. I don't believe in multiple relationships and calling it "monogamy", nor pretending monogamy means nothing without marriage. I don't believe in living together and screwing for comfort and claiming you love someone if you aren't committed, it's prostitution; and I DON'T believe in those bitches who be marrying at the sky chapel and paying for a divorce. I - DOON'T - liiieke et.

CM 01-10-2016 05:10 AM

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Posted by Conquest (Post 658494)
I don't believe in dating; and I don't believe in breaking up. I definitely don't believe in sex before marriage. I dont believe in waning interests when serious. I don't believe in calling someone "clingy" as the common bull**** excuse these days. I don't believe in multiple relationships and calling it "monogamy", nor pretending monogamy means nothing without marriage. I don't believe in living together and screwing for comfort and claiming you love someone if you aren't committed, it's prostitution; and I DON'T believe in those bitches who be marrying at the sky chapel and paying for a divorce. I - DOON'T - liiieke et.

don't forget the gluttons

Red 01-10-2016 05:13 AM

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Posted by Conquest (Post 658494)
I don't believe in dating; and I don't believe in breaking up. I definitely don't believe in sex before marriage. I dont believe in waning interests when serious. I don't believe in calling someone "clingy" as the common bull**** excuse these days. I don't believe in multiple relationships and calling it "monogamy", nor pretending monogamy means nothing without marriage. I don't believe in living together and screwing for comfort and claiming you love someone if you aren't committed, it's prostitution; and I DON'T believe in those bitches who be marrying at the sky chapel and paying for a divorce. I - DOON'T - liiieke et.

Why post this on a thread where you know people will get upset over what you're saying, just stop with this please. We know you have very out of the ordinary beliefs but you're acting like a really bad troll and its getting old.

MrSimons 01-10-2016 05:23 AM

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Posted by Conquest (Post 658494)
I don't believe in dating; and I don't believe in breaking up. I definitely don't believe in sex before marriage. I dont believe in waning interests when serious. I don't believe in calling someone "clingy" as the common bull**** excuse these days. I don't believe in multiple relationships and calling it "monogamy", nor pretending monogamy means nothing without marriage. I don't believe in living together and screwing for comfort and claiming you love someone if you aren't committed, it's prostitution; and I DON'T believe in those bitches who be marrying at the sky chapel and paying for a divorce. I - DOON'T - liiieke et.

I don't like people who date before marriage.

Conquest 01-10-2016 03:36 PM

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Posted by OG (Post 658506)
Why post this on a thread where you know people will get upset over what you're saying, just stop with this please. We know you have very out of the ordinary beliefs but you're acting like a really bad troll and its getting old.

This whole martyr complex some members of this community have been playing anytime anyone expresses their personal beliefs they don't agree with is really getting old. Sorry buddy, but you don't own the world, and you don't own me; you don't have to agree with me but you will respect me. These beliefs were not just borrowed out of a Bible; they all relate to my experiences of my first relationships, so do me a favor and quit trolling like I've told you about a dozen times already

TWIZ 01-10-2016 08:11 PM

I've got to say, MrSimons does have a point...

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Posted by Conquest (Post 658625)
This whole martyr complex some members of this community have been playing anytime anyone expresses their personal beliefs they don't agree with is really getting old. Sorry buddy, but you don't own the world, and you don't own me; you don't have to agree with me but you will respect me. These beliefs were not just borrowed out of a Bible; they all relate to my experiences of my first relationships, so do me a favor and quit trolling like I've told you about a dozen times already

If his intentions are to troll, then perhaps you should look at his intentions to troll, rather than look at his intentions to disagree.

Victory 01-10-2016 11:05 PM

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Posted by TWIZ (Post 658728)
If his intentions are to troll, then perhaps you should look at his intentions to troll, rather than look at his intentions to disagree.

I'm not going to argue with you

Latte 01-10-2016 11:19 PM

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Posted by MrSimons (Post 658511)
I don't like people who date before marriage.

wait
are we married???

5hift 01-10-2016 11:54 PM

LOL.

Red 01-11-2016 12:51 AM

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Posted by Conquest (Post 658625)
This whole martyr complex some members of this community have been playing anytime anyone expresses their personal beliefs they don't agree with is really getting old. Sorry buddy, but you don't own the world, and you don't own me; you don't have to agree with me but you will respect me. These beliefs were not just borrowed out of a Bible; they all relate to my experiences of my first relationships, so do me a favor and quit trolling like I've told you about a dozen times already

Please go get help "buddy", you've got some issues that you need someone to help you with. Talking like you've come straight out of the medevil ages and acting like an elitist gets you no where.

This forum is for Graal all I've seen you do is post threads about being a self proclaimed god (god does not exist either) say you have down syndrome and then drop that act and then say you have tourretes, You post nonsense and bull****tery and then criticize others beliefs to a point where you look like the biggest asshole I've ever seen use these forums and then act like a victim when someone criticizes your beliefs and beg colin to step in and close your thread.

You sir are nothing but a child and a hypocrite.

CM 01-11-2016 01:04 AM

I like how the people who seem to be so bothered by antago are the ones who constantly flare at him and fuel him

Victory 01-11-2016 02:22 AM

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Posted by CM (Post 658909)
I like how the people who seem to be so bothered by antago are the ones who constantly flare at him and fuel him

Thank you CM; I am definitely moving on from arguing with them. :D

Mangsi 01-11-2016 02:29 AM

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Posted by Victory (Post 658981)
Thank you CM; I am definitely moving on from arguing with them. :D

Wait, did you really make a second account?

Victory 01-11-2016 02:43 AM

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Posted by Mangsi (Post 658998)
Wait, did you really make a second account?

The name is less violent.

Mangsi 01-11-2016 02:45 AM

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Posted by Victory (Post 659011)
The name is less violent.

Couldn't you just PM someone to change your name?

Victory 01-11-2016 02:46 AM

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Posted by Mangsi (Post 659014)
Couldn't you just PM someone to change your name?

I was denied. But it's okay; life is great living over on this oceanfront :)

Skyzer 01-11-2016 03:14 AM

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Posted by Victory (Post 659015)
I was denied. But it's okay; life is great living over on this oceanfront :)

I got a name change. nah-nah!

Victory 01-11-2016 03:16 AM

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Posted by Skyzer (Post 659038)
I got a name change. nah-nah!

As did I :P


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