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Nibbles 11-29-2015 06:55 PM

How to tell a girl you like her?
 
Title. I seriously need help.

Conquest 11-29-2015 06:58 PM

Bitch, you sexy! N' I don't know what it is—but some'n about you—it sexy!

Weeno 11-29-2015 07:00 PM

Just hang out with the girl more and she'll find out

Nibbles 11-29-2015 07:02 PM

sigh

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Posted by Weeno (Post 638542)
Just hang out with the girl more and she'll find out

I do that a lot ;-;.

Conquest 11-29-2015 07:05 PM

You definitely should be more reserved than aggressive about it; that is, you like her, but you don't "care". I get weirded out when people make passes at me or have attractions and creep around like snakes or get all up in my face like it's do or die in the relationship. If you respect her, you'll respect yourself, and just let it be; you can make it obvious with time
Sometimes with hormones (it literally doesn't matter what age you are; the flutters affect everyone, so it's not some pre*****cent flaw) we may find it difficult to conceal. I think it's okay to be flirtatious then, and standoffish with such behavior if she doesn't respond or makes it obvious she is uncomfortable.

Nibbles 11-29-2015 07:08 PM

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Posted by Conquest (Post 638549)
You definitely should be more reserved than aggressive about it; that is, you like her, but you don't "care". I get weirded out when people make passes at me or have attractions and creep around like snakes or get all up in my face like it's do or die in the relationship. If you respect her, you'll respect yourself, and just let it be; you can make it obvious with time
Sometimes with hormones (it literally doesn't matter what age you are; the flutters affect everyone, so it's not some pre*****cent flaw) we may find it difficult to conceal. I think it's okay to be flirtatious then, and standoffish with such behavior if she doesn't respond or makes it obvious she is uncomfortable.

Aight.

MrSimons 11-29-2015 07:52 PM

"I'm really into you, want to go out on a date later?"

Probably is gonna be the most uncomfortable way for you, but its also the most straightforward and you won't have to worry about any bull**** where she isn't clear on how you feel.

CM 11-29-2015 07:54 PM

just tell her

it's probably gonna be weird for you but that's how I would go about it

also try and see if she gives you any hints that she might feel the same, if she does then it might make telling her a lot easier

Bryan* 11-29-2015 08:16 PM

Women like men with confidence, go for it and stop asking others what you should do when it's YOU that have to decide on what to say or do.

Colin 11-29-2015 08:23 PM

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Posted by MrSimons (Post 638574)
"I'm really into you, want to go out on a date later?"

Probably is gonna be the most uncomfortable way for you, but its also the most straightforward and you won't have to worry about any bull**** where she isn't clear on how you feel.

This but instead of saying date I usually just aim for something more casual and specific like asking her if she wants to go the movies or eat out, date works too but I'm guessing you're in high school and so is she so I think the more casual the better.

MrSimons 11-29-2015 09:15 PM

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Posted by Colin (Post 638591)
This but instead of saying date I usually just aim for something more casual and specific like asking her if she wants to go the movies or eat out, date works too but I'm guessing you're in high school and so is she so I think the more casual the better.

After awhile I started to make sure I'd mention that its a date; really awkward when you don't make that clear and she thinks you are hanging out as friends.

Conquest 11-29-2015 09:17 PM

Accidentally trip into her and grab her boobs … Then say, "I'm hungry. Let's get dinner."

HeadJoker 11-29-2015 09:24 PM

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Posted by Conquest (Post 638613)
Accidentally trip into her and grab her boobs … Then say, "I'm hungry. Let's get dinner."

Lol this is so funny boi, had me rollin' for 10 minutes

Mizochi 11-29-2015 10:07 PM

Just ask. The worst we can do is say no. In my case I am probably just as shy as you are so taking the first step means a lot to some people

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Red 11-29-2015 10:44 PM

You answered your own question the title, tell her.

Blu 11-29-2015 10:52 PM

Don't tell her if she doesn't like you.
If she doesn't like you back she'll think you're only talking to her so you can get with her. You don't want that.
Hang out more, make a move but don't go too far. If she lets you make the move, then tell her but yeah.

Liz 11-29-2015 11:26 PM

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Posted by Mizochi (Post 638656)
Just ask. The worst we can do is say no. In my case I am probably just as shy as you are so taking the first step means a lot to some people

this

Neil 11-29-2015 11:39 PM

Are you neurotypical?

Eugeen 11-30-2015 03:03 PM

Pee on her and you will mark your territory

CM 11-30-2015 03:29 PM

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Posted by iBubble (Post 638971)
Pee on her and you will mark your territory

7.8/10 IGN, too much pee

Conquest 11-30-2015 04:00 PM

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Posted by Blu (Post 638698)
Don't tell her if she doesn't like you.
If she doesn't like you back she'll think you're only talking to her so you can get with her. You don't want that.
Hang out more, make a move but don't go too far. If she lets you make the move, then tell her but yeah.

This is what I'm saying; really, it's kind of true. I mean, I think a lot of friendships get formed with people we have crushes on but then we become friends anyway. The idea is to treat people, even those we are attracted to, as friends regardless of our attraction or reason for meeting. In the end, if your attraction is reciprocated it will sort of develop on its own I think.

I seriously get super weirded out by people who are forthcoming if we barely know each other. It is one thing to be attracted to me, but to "like me"? Whatever that means. You don't even know me.

If we do know each other quite well (which takes a lot of time), then I feel disturbed by the whole high school antics of "omg omg omg I have a cruusssh!!!!" Like, I'm not somebody's property.

I also get weirded out by people who sneak around and secretly violate my boundaries without ever been given permission to do so, then when confronted deny it or act like I'm crazy. They tend to keep pushing, as well.

Be respectful; get to know her; if something develops, good. This culture of slutty sexual conquest is a complete lie; the idea of being the pushiest most aggressive "confident guy", used up, getting with this person, that person, high fives from the "bros". These kinds of people may vibrate with the porn industry, but in the end unless they fix it—typically wind up some version of a douchebag incapable of deeper human reasoning. Take the pressure off yourself; it isn't real. There's no rush or race to find happiness; you'll know when the time comes—but it won't be some cheap Hollywood thrill where it's "love at first sight so let's bang".

Eugeen 11-30-2015 04:29 PM

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Posted by Conquest (Post 638987)
This is what I'm saying; really, it's kind of true. I mean, I think a lot of friendships get formed with people we have crushes on but then we become friends anyway. The idea is to treat people, even those we are attracted to, as friends regardless of our attraction or reason for meeting. In the end, if your attraction is reciprocated it will sort of develop on its own I think.

I seriously get super weirded out by people who are forthcoming if we barely know each other. It is one thing to be attracted to me, but to "like me"? Whatever that means. You don't even know me.

If we do know each other quite well (which takes a lot of time), then I feel disturbed by the whole high school antics of "omg omg omg I have a cruusssh!!!!" Like, I'm not somebody's property.

I also get weirded out by people who sneak around and secretly violate my boundaries without ever been given permission to do so, then when confronted deny it or act like I'm crazy. They tend to keep pushing, as well.

Be respectful; get to know her; if something develops, good. This culture of slutty sexual conquest is a complete lie; the idea of being the pushiest most aggressive "confident guy", used up, getting with this person, that person, high fives from the "bros". These kinds of people may vibrate with the porn industry, but in the end unless they fix it—typically wind up some version of a douchebag incapable of deeper human reasoning. Take the pressure off yourself; it isn't real. There's no rush or race to find happiness; you'll know when the time comes—but it won't be some cheap Hollywood thrill where it's "love at first sight so let's bang".

This pretty much sums up everything you need to know

Ghettoicedtea 11-30-2015 06:43 PM

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Posted by Weeno (Post 638542)
Just hang out with the girl more and she'll find out

Lmao if you want to be a social **** and be stuck in the friend zone for life so that.

iMask 11-30-2015 06:50 PM

JUST DO IT!

Don't let your dreams be dreams. Yesterday, you said tomorrow, so JUST DO IT! Make your dreams come true!

Conquest 11-30-2015 06:52 PM

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Posted by Ghettoicedtea (Post 639040)
Lmao if you want to be a social **** and be stuck in the friend zone for life so that.

When girls say, "I was interested … In the beginning. But now I'm not because we're friends and I want to keep it that way"—it means she isn't interested. If, after getting to know you, someone wants to "keep you friends", then it's a good thing you didn't get together. The "friend zone" is specifically friends & there is nothing you can do to change this nor should you try because women are people not objects, nor did you do something wrong; the only girl who would ever be like, "Oh! He won't make a move on me?? Fine! We're just friends—for life!!!!" is a hussie.

Sardon 11-30-2015 07:29 PM

Hey are you that girl from redtube/brazzers

Dread 11-30-2015 08:30 PM

Get a bunch of pictures of her and make a shrine of her in your room. once you feel you have a sufficient amount of pictures, invite her over to your house to see the shrine. I'm sure that will really make her happy.

Alexmo 11-30-2015 09:31 PM

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Posted by Dread (Post 639068)
Get a bunch of pictures of her and make a shrine of her in your room. once you feel you have a sufficient amount of pictures, invite her over to your house to see the shrine. I'm sure that will really make her happy.

That's what creeps do but anyway I have no knowledge in how telling someone you like them or dating

Dread 11-30-2015 09:33 PM

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Posted by Alexmo (Post 639090)
That's what creeps do but anyway I have no knowledge in how telling someone you like them or dating

nah it works

Ivy 11-30-2015 10:49 PM

Challenge her to a wrestling match

Eugeen 11-30-2015 10:53 PM

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Posted by Dread (Post 639068)
Get a bunch of pictures of her and make a shrine of her in your room. once you feel you have a sufficient amount of pictures, invite her over to your house to see the shrine. I'm sure that will really make her happy.

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Posted by Alexmo (Post 639090)
That's what creeps do but anyway I have no knowledge in how telling someone you like them or dating

I had a pic of my first ever crush on my phone, she found out and we ended up dating. #Win

Alexmo 11-30-2015 11:41 PM

Oh so I should make shrines and that creepy stuff

Mangsi 11-30-2015 11:54 PM

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Posted by Alexmo (Post 639162)
Oh so I should make shrines and that creepy stuff

Shrines are a good option

Eugeen 12-01-2015 12:28 AM

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Posted by Alexmo (Post 639162)
Oh so I should make shrines and that creepy stuff

Yeah and if they run just summon the demon

Nibbles 12-01-2015 02:42 AM

This is pointless.

She might leave my school and I might not get to see her again

Mangsi 12-01-2015 03:51 AM

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Posted by Nibbles (Post 639299)
This is pointless.

She might leave my school and I might not get to see her again

I god honestly thought you were a 35 year old man working at a law firm when I first saw your posts. Now I see, you're just a teenager. I think.

MrSimons 12-01-2015 08:23 PM

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Posted by Conquest (Post 639045)
If, after getting to know you, someone wants to "keep you friends", then it's a good thing you didn't get together. The "friend zone" is specifically friends & there is nothing you can do to change this nor should you try because women are people not objects, nor did you do something wrong

Not everyone cares for long term, romantic relationships y'know. Sometimes its good to get with someone just for a little fun.

SomeGuy 12-01-2015 08:50 PM

How to tell a girl you like her?
 
Kidnap her and ask her out.

Distorted_P2P 12-01-2015 08:55 PM

Walk up to her calmly. Remember confidence is key. Now with one hand put it on her shoulder, keep breathing maintained at a constant pace, soft, definitely not loud, look her right in the eyes, and whip out your ****.

Dread 12-01-2015 09:12 PM

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Posted by Distorted_P2P (Post 639571)
Walk up to her calmly. Remember confidence is key. Now with one hand put it on her shoulder, keep breathing maintained at a constant pace, soft, definitely not loud, look her right in the eyes, and whip out your ****.

works every time

Distorted_P2P 12-01-2015 09:16 PM

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Posted by Dread (Post 639577)
works every time

it's foolproof

SomeGuy 12-01-2015 09:19 PM

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Posted by Distorted_P2P (Post 639571)
Walk up to her calmly. Remember confidence is key. Now with one hand put it on her shoulder, keep breathing maintained at a constant pace, soft, definitely not loud, look her right in the eyes, and whip out your ****.


You realise thats prompting rape and public nudity? Your a very sick minded person.

Distorted_P2P 12-01-2015 09:22 PM

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Posted by SomeGuy (Post 639584)
You realise thats prompting rape and public nudity? Your a very sick minded person.

Not as bad as raping a child, which is coincidentally your offspring.

SomeGuy 12-01-2015 09:44 PM

How to tell a girl you like her?
 
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Posted by Distorted_P2P (Post 639585)
Not as bad as raping a child, which is coincidentally your offspring.


But you were joking about rape. Your just as bad, right? Or are you inequal?

Alexmo 12-01-2015 09:48 PM

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Posted by SomeGuy (Post 639567)
Kidnap her and ask her out.

Your also sick minded as well

Coco 12-01-2015 10:16 PM

Just do what I did and use cheesy pickup lines.

*eh hemm*
ex: "Are you from Tennessee? Because you're the only 10 I see. *wink*"

..Worked for me just ask Dusty

Distorted_P2P 12-01-2015 11:03 PM

Never said anything about raping her, just showing her the tools so she can work with them if she pleases. Not everyone likes to build things, but with the right tools it's a lot easier.
:blush:

Alexmo 12-01-2015 11:17 PM

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Posted by Coco (Post 639602)
Just do what I did and use cheesy pickup lines.

*eh hemm*
ex: "Are you from Tennessee? Because you're the only 10 I see. *wink*"

..Worked for me just ask Dusty

Your dating Dusty

Vic 12-02-2015 02:54 AM

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Posted by Alexmo (Post 639622)
You're dating Dusty

ftfy


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