It's not a sexual attraction, it's an emotional and/or romantic one.

I'll just say this: If you really like the person, you don't have to be gay, and you don't have to feel like you have to date the person to hold their affection. Friendship can be a very special thing, and it can become very close between the two of you regardless of either of your sexual preferences. There isn't a need for anything sexual, or labels such as "going out", to be close with someone.

But hes a manslut

If we disregard all the other stuff I said, the only things left that I can think of are:

A. You just want to be able to say that the two of you are a couple, despite the other person not wanting to be in a sexless relationship

(Like I said, you don't have to be "going out" with the person in order to gain their affection. What you're looking for is close friendship. It holds all the benefits of dating without sexual expectations. Let go of the labels, they're holding you back from feeling happy with what you have)

B. You like them so much that you wish you were able to become sexually attracted to them even though you just can't

(I get that you want to feel closeness with the person, but being in a relationship with them isn't the be-all end-all, nor is it the only validation of feelings between two people. Or is it because this person wouldn't like you as much without sex? If that's what the person really wants out of you, than their feelings aren't true in the first place.
Save your affection for someone who likes you for who you are)

C. This whole thread is a public scapegoat explaining how you "like the person" but aren't gay so you can't be with them, so that you don't hurt their feelings and they'll understand through the reading of other people's opinion on it

(If that's the case, me putting it out there as a possibility isn't helping at all lol)

B. He's gross but I love him.

I'd say part of the issue is my current sexuality though. Not at all happy with it :x

coulda just messaged me noah. ..

LOL he said you're gross

You play Graal, doesn't that inherently make you gay?

If we all play Graal, does that me we're ALL gay?

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Yeah, basically

ken is even grosser :vomit:

Damn, B, the less fortunate of the three. Well, putting aside not trying to form a relationship with them like I advised(which I'm guessing is hard for you to do because of your feelings or whatever), how does this person even feel about you? You said he was a manslut, is it to the extent that he would never want an asexual relationship at all? You're obviously attracted to his personality, are you willing to cope with a full on gay relationship? It is possible, but I doubt this is that serious. Although you did use the word "love".

Anyways, you could always just not be in a relationship with them, and stay good friends like I said before. Friendships are important too.

No it's me that would want a sexual relationship.

I didn't expect this thread to get so psychological. I'm not prepared for this.

Ya there's no way I'm turning gay lmao

Why not both? Don't see a problem. So, why the heck not!
Swiggity swooty, coming fo' that booty.
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is this thread serious, i really cant tell lol

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