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G Fatal 06-18-2016 03:24 PM

Wait you told 3brothers last year yet your parents don't know until today.. o_o bit attention seeking thread like. Eitherway it's your life as long as your not putting it on others. Also Ik a few gay people and lesbians and majority of their parents already knew/had it in mind that they could be.

Fysez 06-18-2016 03:39 PM

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Posted by G Fatal (Post 715370)
Wait you told 3brothers last year yet your parents don't know until today.. o_o bit attention seeking thread like. Eitherway it's your life as long as your not putting it on others. Also Ik a few gay people and lesbians and majority of their parents already knew/had it in mind that they could be.

I don't see how that's attention seeking at all, enlighten me

Mangsi 06-18-2016 03:42 PM

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Posted by Elizabeth (Post 715354)
AFAIK Pansexual is attraction to all genders, whereas bisexual is only with males and females (can be transgender, so not purely cis.)

This^^^

I, being pansexual, will date anyone with any gender. Agender, bigender, genderqueer/fluid..etc etc.

If I were bisexual, I would only date people who identify as male or female.

Senpai Enigma 06-18-2016 03:47 PM

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Posted by Mangsi (Post 715340)
I'm just so sorry this is happening, Fysez. Is there anything us graalians can do to help you feel better?





Well, me and my one whole sibling are both LGBT, not exactly gay/lesbian, but we both have different genders than our born one. I'm pansexual, while she's probably asexual and aromantic.
So I guess it's possible to have two LGBT kids in a smaller family?

what does she smells like

Admiral 06-18-2016 03:49 PM

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Posted by Mangsi (Post 715373)
This^^^

I, being pansexual, will date anyone with any gender. Agender, bigender, genderqueer/fluid..etc etc.

If I were bisexual, I would only date people who identify as male or female.

So what exactly is being *****? I've tried looking into it and i'm a bit confused about it.

Don't want to sound ignorant or step on anyones toes or anything, but I don't know anyone who openly identifies as a 'non binary' gender so it's good to ask these questions and cure my curiousity

Is ***** essentially someone who doesn't identify with either gender? Isn't that the same as being genderfluid?

EDIT: The blocked out word is the Q in LGBTQ, and sorry to OP if this looks like a hijack, but it kind of relates and who knows, maybe it will help someone reading this

Mangsi 06-18-2016 03:53 PM

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Posted by Admiral (Post 715379)
So what exactly is being *****? I've tried looking into it and i'm a bit confused about it.

Don't want to sound ignorant or step on anyones toes or anything, but I don't know anyone who openly identifies as a 'non binary' gender so it's good to ask these questions and cure my curiousity

Is ***** essentially someone who doesn't identify with either gender? Isn't that the same as being genderfluid?

EDIT: The blocked out word is the Q in LGBTQ

Queeeeer is basically a term people use for when people are still figuring things out. Or just don't want to put a label on themselves. Genderqueer is the same thing basically, but someone had to make up another Queeeeer label for their gender.

Sorry OP, people are asking, gotta provide.

Shmegg 06-18-2016 03:59 PM

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Posted by Admiral (Post 715292)
wonder what the statistics are of having 2 kids in the family that are lesbian/gay (serious)

I mean, I have a LOT of siblings, and 1 of them came out to us last year, so the chances of that happening with a smaller family must be quite slim

im gay and my sister is a lesbian
she's out to the family but im only out to her

Senpai Enigma 06-18-2016 04:31 PM

there are only gays and bisexuals any other thing is basically a bisexual

CM 06-18-2016 04:42 PM

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Posted by Admiral (Post 715379)
So what exactly is being *****? I've tried looking into it and i'm a bit confused about it.

Don't want to sound ignorant or step on anyones toes or anything, but I don't know anyone who openly identifies as a 'non binary' gender so it's good to ask these questions and cure my curiousity

Is ***** essentially someone who doesn't identify with either gender? Isn't that the same as being genderfluid?

EDIT: The blocked out word is the Q in LGBTQ, and sorry to OP if this looks like a hijack, but it kind of relates and who knows, maybe it will help someone reading this

The Q in LGBTQ is for anyone who knows they identify with some part of the LGBTQ community, but are still unsure of where they fall. The Q can also stand for Questioning.

Crono 06-18-2016 07:24 PM

you guys worry too much about these dumb**** fad labels

Liz 06-18-2016 07:25 PM

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Posted by Senpai Enigma (Post 715388)
there are only gays and bisexuals any other thing is basically a bisexual

There's asexual, where you have no sexual desires, pretty sure that wouldn't be "basically a bisexual"

Ivy 06-18-2016 09:57 PM

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Posted by Fysez (Post 715265)
Agreed. They're a pretty cute couple
http://i.imgur.com/2Z1Xl2g.jpg

Why are her eyes upside down in the first pic

Admiral 06-18-2016 09:59 PM

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Posted by Ivy (Post 715505)
Why are her eyes upside down in the first pic

Damn she's just asian

Ivy 06-18-2016 09:59 PM

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Posted by Admiral (Post 715506)
Damn she's just asian

The white girl

5hift 06-18-2016 10:00 PM

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Posted by Ivy (Post 715507)
The white girl

She's just got thicker eyelashes on her bottom eyelids.

Vicipower 06-18-2016 10:08 PM

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Posted by Ivy (Post 715507)
The white girl

She used eyeliner? tf dude

CM 06-18-2016 10:40 PM

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Posted by Ivy (Post 715507)
The white girl

That's really rude. I'm disappointed in you.

Admiral 06-19-2016 12:54 AM

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Posted by 5hift (Post 715508)
She's just got thicker eyelashes on her bottom eyelids.

**** now that ive seen it I can't unsee it

Ivy 06-19-2016 12:57 AM

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Posted by 5hift (Post 715508)
She's just got thicker eyelashes on her bottom eyelids.

I will never understand why people wear makeup

5hift 06-19-2016 01:11 AM

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Posted by Ivy (Post 715576)
I will never understand why people wear makeup

It makes some people look better?

Sometimes not?

Liz 06-19-2016 02:00 AM

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Posted by Ivy (Post 715576)
I will never understand why people wear makeup

personal enjoyment??

Yog 06-19-2016 02:19 AM

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Posted by Ivy (Post 715576)
I will never understand why people wear makeup

i wish i could be pretty ;(

Mangsi 06-19-2016 02:26 AM

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Posted by Yog (Post 715605)
i wish i could be pretty ;(

I feel ya

MrSimons 06-19-2016 02:57 AM

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Posted by Ivy (Post 715576)
I will never understand why people wear makeup

You'd understand if you were good at it.

Ivy 06-19-2016 04:05 AM

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Posted by MrSimons (Post 715612)
You'd understand if you were good at it.

I don't wear it so I don't see a need to be good at it :blush:

Mangsi 06-19-2016 04:35 AM

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Posted by Ivy (Post 715657)
I don't wear it so I don't see a need to be good at it :blush:

Exactly.
You don't need to wear it, but some people do.
It also doesn't matter if you're good at it or not, it's how you feel wearing it/not wearing it.

G Fatal 06-19-2016 09:49 AM

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Posted by Fysez (Post 715372)
I don't see how that's attention seeking at all, enlighten me

As noone here even needs to know if you are gay or not, I mean you told your bro's(reasonable) AND randomers(bit odd) before you even told your parents.

Yog 06-19-2016 10:24 AM

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Posted by G Fatal (Post 715748)
As noone here even needs to know if you are gay or not, I mean you told your bro's(reasonable) AND randomers(bit odd) before you even told your parents.

That's not uncommon when people come out. Some fear that their parents won't agree with them. And then what the hell do you do? They're your parents.

Thallen 06-19-2016 10:41 AM

OP is gay

The Doctor 06-19-2016 04:09 PM

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Posted by Thallen (Post 715764)
OP is gay

kek

CM 06-19-2016 05:25 PM

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Posted by G Fatal (Post 715748)
As noone here even needs to know if you are gay or not, I mean you told your bro's(reasonable) AND randomers(bit odd) before you even told your parents.

Some people feel more comfortable telling others before they tell their parents.

PigParty 06-20-2016 01:35 AM

It's honestly the parents' fault to a degree if their children feel afraid to come out to them because they fear they won't be accepted anymore.

DJ Meow 06-20-2016 02:10 AM

I think it's about time I stopped hiding who I truly am. I can't fool any of you or even my parents. Yes, since I was only ten years old, I realized who I truly was. I never told or talked to anyone about it because I thought if I did, everyone would be ashamed of me and laugh at me.*

But today, I'm going to announce to you all first, yes first, that since I was only the age of ten, I discovered....that I......was.......was......ahem, cough. Sorry this is hard for me to say. Since about as long as I can remember, I.....I.....I've deceived you all.*

And I'd liked to apologize to everyone I've hurt by doing so, including my family. Yes I am a forum troll! Yeah, I said it! And I'm not afraid to say it either! I've been this way for as long as I could remember! Let me tell you though I am not ashamed of who I am!

This is me! The real me. And I won't hide the truth from you guys forever and try to earn all of your acceptance! So yeah, thats right! I'm a forum troll, so what?

Now that I've said it, I hope you all understand! And no, I won't turn back just to please you all. I'm
sorry but, this is who I am and none of you can ever take that from me!

Whoever's feelings were hurt during reading this thread, I am sincerely sorry. But I just couldn't hide the truth from you all much longer. I hope you all still love me and treat me the same even though you now know who I really am.

PigParty 06-20-2016 02:39 AM

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Posted by DJ Meow (Post 715951)
****post

Way to be an asshole and undermine a real thread by someone with real, personal issues.

DJ Meow 06-20-2016 02:47 AM

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Posted by PigParty (Post 715965)
Way to be an asshole and undermine a real thread by someone with real, personal issues.

An asshole? I was confessing to you all about who I really was to you all. Do you know how hard it was for me to even type that all?

5hift 06-20-2016 03:15 AM

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Posted by PigParty (Post 715965)
Way to be an asshole and undermine a real thread by someone with real, personal issues.

I heard if you don't give idiots attention, they just shrivel up and die like leeches in soy sauce.

Ivy 06-20-2016 03:58 AM

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Posted by 5hift (Post 715983)
I heard if you don't give idiots attention, they just shrivel up and die like leeches in soy sauce.

:rolleyes:

DJ Meow 06-20-2016 04:08 AM

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Posted by 5hift (Post 715983)
I heard if you don't give idiots attention, they just shrivel up and die like leeches in soy sauce.

not so simple as you may think. I will never die. I will keep living.

DJ Meow 06-20-2016 04:13 AM

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Posted by Distorted_P2P (Post 716001)
pigparty the messiah, jesus christ reborn, the most righteous man alive!
stfu

You tell him pal!

Chelterrar 06-24-2016 11:28 AM

Coming Out Today
 
I'm proud of you that you finally decided to come out. A lot of friends always knew I was gay after I figured that out. But it went one at the time. I publicly came out I think 2 years ago, twice, actually. One time to my class and one time the people who lived with me in boarding school. The response was amazing (yet of course there were actually one or two who "suddenly" decided to not hang out with me anymore and obviously "not" because I was gay)

I came out to my mom about 2 weeks before that. So when I told her, her first response was like "Shhhh, not so loud. Don't let the neighbors hear it". She really had to process it some time. But she later texted me how much she is proud of me. And to this day it only improved our relationship. I know coming out is a hard thing. Especially to people that are important to you and you are afraid to actually lose. But honestly it's the best feeling ever after you did it. Because you finally feel free of that heavy burden. I publicly kinda also came out on Facebook, but I was like "yaaay I updated a bit of info about me". Blah blah. Your mom will eventually learn to live with it. She might not be supportive or very nice about it, but sadly that's still the way people are.

I know it doesn't really matter, but trust me, I have fights with people on graal so often that tell me having a boyfriend is gross as ****. 95% love the fact I'm gay. And if your family doesn't support you, then find someone who likes you the way you are.

5hift 06-25-2016 10:58 PM

Best way to tell your friends and parents that you're gay:

Spoiler

PigParty 06-25-2016 11:17 PM

Saw this last night and thought this might help you in some way, or at least make you feel better, seeing someone else's story.

http://www.cbsnews.com/news/orlando-...me-out-as-gay/


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